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  • Re: Dry Land

    Oh come on, sex is now somehow more important than love? That's not a world I want to live in. Don't get me wrong, sex is great and very important to me but I would never dream of ditching my husband if we hadn't been sexually compatible. Which, seriously, what does that even mean? What's the point of the endless books and articles on the subject ...
    Posted to The Chat Room by JuliaRain on August 10, 2009
  • The security paradox

    I tend to take a more liberal stance than Nehring on marriage but I laud her critique on relational security. The obsessions with committment and security have replaced deep desire and insatiable attraction with a calculable assessment that asserts structure and control rather than flexibility and emotional relaxation. Love has never been more ...
    Posted to The Highbrow by Agile Cyborg on June 20, 2009
  • Feminism, meet fantasy

    I don't think there's much harm done to feminism if a writer fantasizes about Random Event X providing wealth and concludes that the most plausible event would be marriage to a rich man. It is more disturbing coming from women in very lucrative fields. After college I worked in the kind of job parents must dream about. The (highly respected) ...
    Posted to XX Factor by brightsea on January 8, 2009
  • New Poem: Lint

    LintHow I love the man who cleans my lintHe sits beside me clucking as he strokes''Do you fell better now?'' he asksMy black skirt ripples in his lapI would build a boat for himSkim the seas with scarlet sailsI'd give him gold butterflies--Twine them in his beardBut I sit still, sated, stupefiedAnd that is why he does the workHe always does ...
    Posted to Poems by elisabeth on December 12, 2008
  • HOT SEX WOMEN!!!

    Hi, I am Rosa, a sexy and beautiful woman. Internet is a quite good place to meet friends and even find whatever your need. I think online dating is really nice. My friend recommended me a very interesting and HOT place, where many fans are together, also I've meet kinds of black and white singles who are hunger for true love online. I am just in ...
    Posted to Ballot Box by kevincy on November 25, 2008
  • A valentines day thought...

    From The Divine Comedy by Dante Alighieri: Paradisio: Call it not love, for Love to heaven is fled Since sweating lust on earth usurp'd His name. Under whose simple semblance man hath fed upon fresh beauty blotting it with blame, Which the hot tyranny stains and soon bereaves As caterpillers do the tender leaves. Love comforteth like ...
    Posted to Human Nature by klatu on February 14, 2008