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Thank you for writing this!
... this story is heartbreaking and infuriating. Of course the elderly are full human beings, have an evolved sexuality, and should have full access to their sexual rights. If our legal and familial institutions are not set up to handle these realities, they need to change. Many cultures have either formal or 'look the other way' valves to ...
Posted to
Family
by
commentator245
on
June 14, 2008
Life and Death
The answer Prudence gave to Life and Death about the care of monor children following both parents deaths was incomplete. Such things should definitly be planned for through wills by all parents, remote as the possibility is that such an event may happen. The reasons that couples with new babies select ''Godparents'' is traditionally for exactly ...
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Dear Prudence
by
Rojasp
on
April 13, 2008
Re: Psycho-Dad
Here's a real question...does the writer remember all of these horrors brought upon the family from his own personal memory, or is he depending upon others to tell him what happened? Did his mom convince all of the children of these horrors, or did they really happen? Changed names, moved to another coast? Why was that necessary after the birth ...
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Dear Prudence
by
SJ Husak
on
November 27, 2007
Especially since we can't always marry...
I'm in total agreement... There's a facet here I don't see anyone else thinking about -- if that girlfriend has a disability forcing her to rely on government support, she essentially can't marry. The minute someone in that position does, SSI, Medicaid, personal aides or other necessary services, any affordable housing options, etc. all vanish, ...
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by
kittycalbard
on
September 13, 2007
Love, marriage, and baby carriages
Tying the two Prudie posts together, as an anthropologist I can say that both of these seem incredibly commonplace and normal, healthy relationships. Apparently, these two women watch too much Lifetime. Millions of years and billions of births later, we seem to have forgotten that most partnerships in this world are forged on the kind of ...
Posted to
Dear Prudence
by
Anthrodiva
on
August 31, 2007