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  • Polanski

    Just because an adult is sexually stimulated by the sight or actions of a child does not excuse his actions. Your author attempts to excuse Polanski by saying the thirteen-year-old victim he raped behaved provocatively. So where does this slippery slope end? With the three-year-old tot who has learned that ''flirting'' melts an adult and yields ...
    Posted to Human Nature by Mary Golden on October 14, 2009
  • When evil enters your home

    I read your story and re-read it because the thought of witches never entered my head. Evil children? I have an 11 year old little girl, that has sexually abused other children (younger than her), and has attempted to abuse numerous other children. Where does that evil come from? Would she be considered a 'witch' in another century or even this ...
    Posted to Books by Gracer on April 21, 2009
  • Sexual Hypocrisy, Law Enforcement & the InterNET

    Thanks for a very interesting and thoughtful article that addressed current events, came up with new approaches, and put it all together neatly in one, entertaining article. My view on those folks who would employ our law enforcement authorities to charge and convict individual InterNET users, is somewhat different. I see these forceful, legal ...
    Posted to Human Nature by MichaelBernard1 on July 8, 2008
  • Are we overreacting?

    Puberty being activated is not an indication that girls are ready to look for mates. The girls bodies and minds are not ready to reproduce and they are not prepared to make adult decisions about the risks of sex. False advertising about sexuality is risky. Women who are taught at a young age that men are the whole reason for being are hardly ...
    Posted to Fashion by sldcowen on June 17, 2008
  • Agreed

    While it may be true that skimpy fashion has existed for young girls in the past, I would have to say that the fashion industry has taken it beyond what it used to be. The word pre-teen first started in the 60s...but it seems that the fashion industry and the media have hyperbolized that stage of life so much, that people in that age group begin ...
    Posted to Fashion by mmchristian1121 on June 9, 2008
  • Preadolescence and society

    I've read alot of the comments on teens and fashion and realizing there is one common thing involved that most don't realize. The mental state. If I person reads or looks at something that is to be taken as sexually explict or provocative then that's what it becomes. If one looks at the same thing as cute then that too is what it becomes. This ...
    Posted to Fashion by Politically Correct on August 29, 2007
  • Teen and Tween clothes aren't THAT sexy!!!!!

    teen and tween clothes arent that sexy and i SHOULD know i wear them for gosh sake yes I am 13 and me and my mom have very different tastes in clothes but this women is describing stuff like it should be for adults I happen to love Juicy Coture, Baby Phat and Limited too.....shes a bit too strict I get the whole ''I dont want my kid to look like a ...
    Posted to Fashion by hAppYEmOtEEn on August 29, 2007
  • Re: Baby Phat?

    I happen to love Kimora's line but my mom wants me to tell you that 1) (this is my input) PHAT means ''pretty, hot and tempting'' and 2) (my mom) there are other words for cats than kitty and it starts with a P and ends with and USSY
    Posted to Fashion by hAppYEmOtEEn on August 29, 2007
  • Re: The way to be...

    please...think about your kids. I mean, I get the whole women complaining about dating is only about sex but your kid isn't going to look like a cheap whore if you know where to shop!!!(aka Target, Walmart, Macy's, JCPenny, Boscov's, Hot Topic, Mudd) and FYI cheap and sleazy isn't the ''it'' thing I mean sure you'd think that if you read all ...
    Posted to Fashion by hAppYEmOtEEn on August 29, 2007
  • Re: Innappropriate attire for girls & Pedophilia

    I think you make an interesting point about this strange divide we have on this topic. The other replies have dealt with whether provocative clothing on a young girl provokes a pedophile, but I was thinking more about the effect on the girls themselves. It seems to me that when a young girl has been allowed to view herself and define herself as ...
    Posted to Fashion by pas918 on August 26, 2007
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