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  • Are we overreacting?

    Puberty being activated is not an indication that girls are ready to look for mates. The girls bodies and minds are not ready to reproduce and they are not prepared to make adult decisions about the risks of sex. False advertising about sexuality is risky. Women who are taught at a young age that men are the whole reason for being are hardly ...
    Posted to Fashion by sldcowen on June 17, 2008
  • Agreed

    While it may be true that skimpy fashion has existed for young girls in the past, I would have to say that the fashion industry has taken it beyond what it used to be. The word pre-teen first started in the 60s...but it seems that the fashion industry and the media have hyperbolized that stage of life so much, that people in that age group begin ...
    Posted to Fashion by mmchristian1121 on June 9, 2008
  • Parents need to accept responsibility

    I agree completely that there are some phenomenally inappropriate cloths out there for young girls, but there are some stores that are inappropriate for parents to take their kids to. I have so sympathy for the mom who was disgusted when she took her daughter into Forever 21--Their target age range is right there in the title! What are you doing ...
    Posted to The Chat Room by Meliss1001 on January 17, 2008
  • A Man's Rant: Spandex and Public viewing

    After going to the gym nearly everyday over the past couple weeks, I am compelled to rant on a matter of public decorum which is visually distracting but seems to escape all public mention. WEARING SPANDEX CLOTHING IN PUBLIC WITH NOTHING OVER IT IS IMMODEST, PROVOCATIVE, AND at the very least PUBLICLY OBTUSE and at worst PUBLICLY SALACIOUS. ...
    Posted to Dear Prudence by Usama2 on January 4, 2008
  • Clothes for fat kids

    In the discussion piece with Emily Yoffe, a writer from Texas lamented how hard it was to find clothes for her fat child. This person mention that obesity is a''big issue in our children.'' I continue to be amazed by parents of fat children. Especially parents like this person who's child clearly has no medical problem causing her to be fat, ...
    Posted to The Chat Room by palubinsky on December 5, 2007
  • Preadolescence and society

    I've read alot of the comments on teens and fashion and realizing there is one common thing involved that most don't realize. The mental state. If I person reads or looks at something that is to be taken as sexually explict or provocative then that's what it becomes. If one looks at the same thing as cute then that too is what it becomes. This ...
    Posted to Fashion by Politically Correct on August 29, 2007
  • Teen and Tween clothes aren't THAT sexy!!!!!

    teen and tween clothes arent that sexy and i SHOULD know i wear them for gosh sake yes I am 13 and me and my mom have very different tastes in clothes but this women is describing stuff like it should be for adults I happen to love Juicy Coture, Baby Phat and Limited too.....shes a bit too strict I get the whole ''I dont want my kid to look like a ...
    Posted to Fashion by hAppYEmOtEEn on August 29, 2007
  • Re: Baby Phat?

    I happen to love Kimora's line but my mom wants me to tell you that 1) (this is my input) PHAT means ''pretty, hot and tempting'' and 2) (my mom) there are other words for cats than kitty and it starts with a P and ends with and USSY
    Posted to Fashion by hAppYEmOtEEn on August 29, 2007
  • Re: The way to be...

    please...think about your kids. I mean, I get the whole women complaining about dating is only about sex but your kid isn't going to look like a cheap whore if you know where to shop!!!(aka Target, Walmart, Macy's, JCPenny, Boscov's, Hot Topic, Mudd) and FYI cheap and sleazy isn't the ''it'' thing I mean sure you'd think that if you read all ...
    Posted to Fashion by hAppYEmOtEEn on August 29, 2007