I didn't see a push to commitment necessarily either. Maybe it just didn't work out. Might as well be yourself regardless.

I completely agree. Rules are so stupid. When you clique with someone, you know, and all the rules go out the window. You need to find out if you connect AS YOU ARE to see if you can accept each other as is. Too many people act like dating is a project, and usually end up with disasterous relationships even if they do end up being long term, because they are based on rigidity and score cards.

bzl:

clique with someone

Love it! How apropos.