"If I had to yell at somebody, it would be the schools. Not because it's their fault..."
OK, then don't. SD, perhaps you didn't intend to light this fire, but unfortunately, you lit the wrong match, buddy. I am so sick and tired of everything being blamed on schools. Yes, school administrators and teachers make mistakes now and then. No one is perfect, after all. But, you must remember that teachers/administrators are doing exactly what they are told to do by the government that you elected. That's right. The government reflects the people that it represents. No matter how hard you try, you can't run away from the fact that you are responsible for keeping your own house, and that includes raising your children and teaching them basic morals, values, and self-discipline.
"converting a parent to healthier habits helps one or two kids, converting a school helps hundreds."
Wrong, wrong, wrong and wrong. Sorry, you miss the boat here. Teachers can drive ideas into kids' heads all day every day for the entire school year, but it won't mean squat if parents aren't reinforcing such behaviors at home. Unless you're suggesting that we go Stalinist on people and snatch up kids and send 'em off to State School, you can't change the children without fixing home first.
"We need to be less liberal with bussing (there's no reason a kid can't walk a mile or two to school in most towns)"
Ok, yeah, it's annoying when the stupid bus is stopping every 17 feet. Yet, this isn't about busing. I rode a bus for 12 years. This is about what kids do before, during and after school. Kids would rather play video games than do any real work. Hence why you have so many "gurus" on Guitar Hero, but none of them can actually play the guitar. You forget about activities. Hey, they're not into football? Stick a trumpet or a pair of drum sticks in their grubby little hands. They'll have 4 to 6 years of marching band to keep them in shape.
"we need to be restrictive about acceptable school lunch."
If schools were like real-life businesses, I'd have the answer for you. Eliminate school-provided meals altogether. In the real world, if you bitch and gripe about a service or blame it for problem upon problem, the company just discontinues the service. Besides, if you don't like what the school sells, then pack a frickin' lunch for your kid. I don't know what kind of school lunches you guys are used to, but most of the ones I've seen in my 31 years on this planet can simply be categorized as "beige." God knows why anyone would even want to eat that crap.
"if you want to look towards getting kids more active, i suggest we discuss pe or the lack thereof in the schools. i was shocked when i found out how many of these kids don't have access to PE, or don't become involved in sports or other afterschool activities. my mom kept us busy. we didnt have hours upon hours for video games- there was dance and gymnastics, basketball and football, piano lessons AND my mom used to make sure we also went out and played (she used to have to force me to go, but go i would)"
Therein lies the problem, deduction. Once again, I come back to what I said earlier. Schools do what they have to do by state and federal law. We have a law that says kids have to earn a certain score on the state standardized test in math and reading to avoid school seizure by the state. Well, what happens? Schools go ape doo-doo with math and reading (sometime 2 1/2 hours of it every day) to boost scores. Forget science, history, physical education and God forbid, music. Just so those math and reading scores come up. I could be here all day talking about the problems we have with today's public education system.
My point is that we need to address the problem at home through parents. Parents are still responsible for raising their kids, the last time I checked. Let's stop assuming that it's the school's responsibility to teach kids how to spell their own name, for crying out loud.