As an over-28, former newspaper reporter and current graduate student, with friends, aquaintances and associates who range in age from 21 to 50 years - most of them from different ethnic/racial/socio-economic groups - the article was more on point than off.
Generally speaking, my single, black women friends with undergraduate, medical or law degrees and good jobs, complain about people setting them up on dates with black men who never went to college; have jobs as security guards, postmen, hairdressers or some other characteristic that does not match or complement their level of education, personality or family background.
My white women friends with the same educational/background characteristics are typically introduced to single men WITH college and/or professional degrees, and jobs in which the men are the manager of 'this,' the director of 'that,' or the CEO of the ABCD Company.
The black single women said they're open to dating outside their race; many of the white men, however, would never date or marry a black woman because of family issues. The white women would be open to dating black men, but many said they are unsure if they would marry one (this response differed along age/social class levels).
The black married women who have husbands who lost their jobs and were out of work for long periods of time, generally stuck with the men; my white married female friends tended to get rid of husbands whose earning power was lost or severely diminished over a period of time.
As to the Madonnas - my single (and attractive) women pals (white, black, Hispanic and Asian) who don't sleep around or don't believe in premarital sex, rarely or NEVER get asked out on dates. The liberally spirited girls DO get asked out on dates. However, the majority of women in both groups really question if they'll ever get married. Their responses seem to mirror what the author said: the men have no incentive to marry because of all the freebies they can have without the ring. The availability of free love and easy access tends to make a guy evolve (or devolve) into a lazy tom cat.
My brother, who has a JD and an MBA and a house in the desireable part of town, said the women are being "too picky" or "shallow," which is why they're alone. Interesting given that he tends to date women who are usually 9s or 9.5s on the 10 scale of attractiveness.
The point here is that there is a level of rationality in the seemingly irrational selection process: women generally like to nest; men generally like to hunt. When the balance of nature, so to speak, gets out of whack, and the women not only offer the benefits of "nesting" while developing hunting skills, the male response becomes a no-brainer.