Re: "Culture" is no explanation
by
Andrewp111
01/16/2008, 8:25 PM #
Quite right. In fact one could argue that the personal cost of a relationship tends to increase as one grows older, and this has the effect of making relationships harder to come by. Consider this - A man and a woman get hitched right out of high school. Neither one of them has any property or a career. They start out together, buy a house together, etc.... Now consider a childless man and a woman, each in their 40s. They already own houses which they live in alone, and their houses are located in near ideal locations for their own daily commutes, but far apart from each-other on the capitol beltway. One has cats and the other has a dog. Combining households would be very inconvenient and costly for at least one of those persons. And given the immense psycological inhibition to simply moving into the partner's house, (since the partners would be no longer on equal footing power-wise), it is likely that a combined household would involve both partners having to sell and buy a new house together. It should be no surprise that it is easier for either person to simply take in a younger partner with no property as a live in lover, if they can find one.
king charles I:..... If marriage was so easy for white people, why the need for sites like match.com, eharmony, etc.? And why is the divorce rate still at 50%? Seems to me that being able to "get" married means nothing if the result is still the same across the board.