I did not have the news media in mind when I mentioned "fetishization of tolerance." I spent 14 years in a major academic institution and had more of that world in mind when I wrote it.
My point was that a culture can become so self-doubting, so worried that we may have our own cultural point of view that would offend another, that we can easily lose our own cultural point of view altogether. We lose our own self-confidence and encourage others who run up against confidence to be offended. And in as much as modern Western civilization is built on classically liberal ideas and principles far more so than ethnicity, music, food, costume and other physical aspects of "culture," that is particularly dangerous. We need to maintain the confidence to assert our cultural values when they are at stake.
As a warning, see how in England there are Muslims demanding that they run their own sharia-law courts, outside of the English legal system. And the response? It's actually being debated by the British, including such concerns as "who are we to judge?" that sharia law - which requires such things as honor killings - as being any "worse" than British common law, which invented the very concept of habeus corpus.
That is the fethishization of tolerance.