Anecdotal Observation + A Great Line
by
dk_brown
11/08/2007, 5:41 PM #
First the great line. Emily, thanks for putting a whole new twist on the pressure to breastfeed. I would never have thought this is possible: "They asked mothers about whether they'd breast-fed via questionnaire".
I live in Berkeley, CA, one of the hyper-pressurized breastfeeding locations in the country. My children were all breastfed (including my twins who were breastfed exclusively for 6 months and then weaned at about 13 months). I am happy and proud that they were and that my spouse and I were able to experience that. Who knows whether each is 7 IQ points smarter than they would otherwise have been. They are pretty smart but I am their parent so take what I say with a grain of salt. Also, who knows if they are healthier than they would otherwise be. We have had our share of infections and fevers. My point is that it seems natural, was always there and just felt right. That is fortunate, living where we do, because there are times when that is not the case for parents. And, too many people feel like they need to tell the parent of the baby that they are making a wrong choice.
Anecdotally, one of the smartest and healthiest kids (in fact, this high school sophomore has yet to miss a day of school) I know was not breastfed (nor were this kid's siblings). Their parents are just as loving and sacrafice just as much as any of the best parents I know.
My point: Make your decision about breastfeeding based on what works for you, considering the factors you think are most important. If the decision works for you, it should work for everyone else.