well, they shouldn't be allowed everywhere....
by
deduction
10/24/2007, 2:38 PM #
but kids do need a certain amount of freedom to grow. i think you have to make a decision on how much to limit your kids movements based on knowing your environment and knowing your kid.
i am sick of hearing about teenagers getting kidnapped, raped, killed because for some reason they were out by themselves late at night. and i'm not talking eighteen years old here. i'm saying 14 or 15. even younger. this is in new york city and anything can happen to anyone. knowing that, it seems very ignorant that some of the natives refuse to change their living style to suit the situation. it's one thing to be callous and unsafe themselves, but when they pass that on their children, well....
when i was a kid in the burbs, my mom would tell me that i could play anywhere within a certain area in our neighborhood. this was because there wasn't much traffic, she knew the neighbors, people were out and about.... things that make it safe for a kid to explore, you know? and when it got dark, we had to go inside. (or at least be in someone's backyard and check in beforehand).
if we'd been in the city, i'm sure she would have been more strict. because there are more dangers out there. i'm not saying we should overprotect our kids. but if you know your kid is not able to be rational enough to keep themselves safe yet (and this has nothing to do with age and everything to do with maturity) or not rational enough to not do something stupid just because everyone else is, then i think you need to keep extra watch on them.