Re: Having Just Completed a Child Abduction Workshop…
by
Demosthenes2
10/24/2007, 3:15 PM #
Hi Will,
Well, having just completed a workshop on how to avoid having your child abducted sponsored by one of the leading experts in NY State and in preparation for the birth of our twins (and, of course, having a three year old) I’m inclined to ask: scarier than losing your child?
The statistics are really scary and the methods used by the abductors terribly subtle and dark. I’m no fan of embedded chips but I can’t help thinking about the one set of parents I know whose child was abducted and the thought of managing three kids when you’re outnumbered. It’s (of course) every parent’s nightmare. Statistically it’s likely to be someone close to the family or who has had some form of casual contact.
I watched a video of parents using all the techniques taught in the seminar to train their children not to open doors, the use of password phrases, techniques to avoid being led to people by pets or candy or money when their older children and then watched those same kids let a UPS uniformed or FEDEX or other official looking person walk right into their homes within an hour.
Yeah, parents will drive it. They’ll drive it because we’re scared to death that tragedy is random and real and too terrible to contemplate and really, something it’s much harder to control than we like to imagine.
I don’t know Will, I fear the advent of such technology too, but any parent that’s been separated from their child in a park or mall knows that chilling feeling that it can’t be—can’t be—that. But it can be.
Chips are scary but are they as frightening as the possible alternatives? Can you imagine having a chip in your car and losing your child and torturing yourself with the terrible irony of that? [Shudder]