Boys Ruining School for Girls? Well duh.
by
crt59
09/07/2007, 11:35 PM #
Important points to consider are these:
1. Yes, boys do not get along well (and often do not behave well) in mixed gender schools. This is because they do, as you say, have a lot of testosterone and are not "built" for sitting in a classroom to learn. I am sure girls honestly believe this ruins school for them. Our classrooms in America are taught by an overwhelming majority of female teachers who often do not understand why boys can't sit still in a desk and do their work, and why they are busy disrupting unstructured times and, even structured times. In a boys school boys needs are more likely to be top priority and people who understand boys and know how to motivate them and help them learn are more likely to want to teach in such schools. For this reason, if for no other, boys would be just fine in a boys school environment.
2. Girls do have maturity over boys, as a general rule. Girls are more likely to appear to be getting along well in a girls only school. At the same time a girls school will be more likely to put the needs of girls as a high priority. Again, teachers who would enjoy working in a girls school are going to be the ones who understand girls better than boys, and who enjoy catering to the needs and wants of girls.
3. Of course girls do not like boys "ruining" school for them. Girls have a very complex social order that allows "queen bee" girls to rule their cliques with an iron hand. When boys come along, everything can get very confusing for the girls and things can go into social disarray very quickly. The presence of boys tends to disempower some of the girl bullies and disrupt things.