Guess what Dana Stevens...
by
kermielovesyou
11/05/2009, 8:10 PM #
Abject poverty exists.
Incest, violence, physical, verbal, and emotional abuse exist.
What did you want this movie to be? What did you expect? How could it have been any better for you and still retained the blunt reality of inner city poverty and abuse?
I think you are uncomfortable by these scenes because you pretend they don't exist when they aren't on the screen, the reality "shoved" in your face, as you say.
Overdetermined tawdriness? These are not exaggerated caricatures; you obviously don't understand there are parents out there, situations out there, that are JUST LIKE THIS.
And I don't think they are "offering up their heroine's misery for the audience's delectation" but rather for their recognition.
I admit I could be totally off base, but your review seems inadequately hindered by your lack of experience with or knowledge of the subject matter.
For a large section of the populace, real life IS tawdry. Real life IS bluntly shoved in your face. Real life makes people far more uncomfortable than this movie made you. Unfortunately.