Re: Dana Stevens didn't grow up a Poor Black Child.
by
LT-7
11/06/2009, 2:50 PM #
You can grow up poor and black without growing up abused, dehumanized and maltreated at every level.
What is bothering Ms. Stevens is that while the poverty isn't all through our culture, the taste for dehumanization, abuse, maltreatment and general coarseness is going all through it.
There are people who are very wealthy who go around talking trash and doing the coarsest, most abusive things. We are inundated and can't escape coarse imagery, coarse language, dehumanizing treatment of other people as though it were normal.
Our culture has become so busy tearing things down and pulling people and things into the gutter so they are "real" that it is hard to find gentleness and manners and courtesy and people talking without coarse language. What used to be something no person would want to do publicly, for fear of being a social outcast, is just "keeping it real".
You almost have to go to a Disney (not Touchstone) movie to avoid coarse crap.
Poverty doesn't necessarily have to mean abusiveness and coarseness and dehumanization.