What I find most aggravating about Catholics is that they generally uninformed about the history of the church and the role it has played in history. Ask them to look at the real history and they get huffy. The Church's role in science over the last 2 millenium is largely obstructionist, not progressive. Whether the subject is the shape of the world, lthe proper role of women in the world, the reality of witchcraft or whether condoms actually save lives and the condition of Terri Schiavo's brain, the Church has consistently elevated dogma over reality. Heck, it took them 2,000 years to stop blaming the Jews for killing Christ - publically, at least. Let's not even get into the role of the Jesuit's in the colonization of other civilization or the role of the church in codifying anti-Semitism into law for centuries.
With your list of topics the Church is "right " about, have you read any of the materials supplied by the Church to the faithful? I have. To say that they rely on no science is to be kind. In actuality, try reading some of the material, and then try to fact-check any of it. If churches could be sued for distributing false and misleading material that has led to the deaths of innocent people, we wouldn't be worrying about trying to find money to pay off sexual victims. Yes, and we can thank Benedict for that as he was head of the Office of the Grand inquisition and superior in charge of priestly conduct. Either he is stupid or corrupt - take your pick, but frankly, anyone who denies that they understood the magnitude of the abuse or it's consequences is suspect. Oh, but maybe they don't read any of that fancy modern psychological science over there at the Vatican. What do you think?
Read some of Benedict's papers, look up some impartial information on the role of the Church during World War II and ask yo urself how the Church hierarchy managed to maintain the entire safety of the Vatican and its possessions in the middle of a Fascist country. Ask yourself why the church did not issue one single visa to a single Jew throughout the entire course of the war. Ask yourself why Pius X didn't use his considerable moral influence to raise an international alarm about the ongoing genocide in Europe. And then ask yourself if the Church's magical ability to safefguard its property had anything at all to do with any of the other questions. You will probably end up denying any of this, but you will have to tie yourself into a very serious pretzel to come out of the inquiry. I don't expect most Catholics to bother arming themselves with facts or learning anything about the realities of the modern issues where the Church continues to insert itself.
As for Proposition 8, do you imagine that the success of that typically uneducated point of view had more to do with the massive amounts of money poured into the political process by the Catholics and the Mormons than the integrity of the Church's position. Occasionally their abililty to throw monumental amounts of money into what should be a secular election just doesn't work - as in Massachusetts. The poor old broke Archdiocese of Boston had to renege on its plan to compensate victims of sexual crimes because it had to spend $1 million on a massive mailing campaign to defeat civil rights legislation. Too bad Massachusetts has a highly educated population because they were not swayed. Just as the citizens of Ireland no longer wear blinders in regards to the predatory conduct of the clergy in that county - attendance at Mass has fallen from 85% to less than 35%. Turns out the Irish are no fans of abusive clergy. Take a look at Spain. They resisted the ridiculous claims and threats by the Pope and instituted a modern public policy regarding women's health and gay men and lesbians. The US is ignoring the Pope on stem cell research now that the retarded guy from Texas is no longer in office. Of course, the Holy Mother Church is kicking ass in Africa where it is recruiting AIDs orphans in their youth and cranking out priests. This follows the extraordinary insistence that condoms must not be used to prevent AIDS infections, another patently unscientific piece of tragic advice. Tell me. What do you suppose will be the penalty for these men on Judgement Day when they were asked how they excused their willful ignorance in the face of reliable scientific advice? Somehow, "I was just following orders" isn't going to make it.
I left the Church many years ago, but have followed the politics, the money, the international efforts, the influence in elections, the progress - or more to the point, the LACK of progress - in countries where the Church still holds sway. I dare you - educate yourself. Ask about maternal health in Catholic countries, ask about childhood health, ask about the distribution of wealth in those countries, ask about the welfare of the people in the places that should be really swell places to live because of the overwhelming influence of the Church. Check the rates of abortion in those countries, just to make sure you understand just what clinging to nonscientific claptrap really means for human beings. If it doesn't make you sick, at least it might make you think. Personally, I don't expect you to do any of those things or read any material - it's just too real.,
I see the glory of the Church in the buildings, the art, the treasures and the property. I acknowledge the role of the monks of Ireland in preserving learning and knowledge during the Dark Ages. Most of all, I acknowledge the many wonderful Catholic people who have served the good cause during the history of the Church, like the German priests and nuns during WWII; those killed in South and Latin America for championing the basic human rights of those citizens; the doctors and nurses who work with the poorest and most desperate and the beautiful Catholic people I meet in my life. I am related to dozens of Catholics and see a broad range of faith among those folks. However, history demonstrates that lots of the good works had little or nothing to do with the Vatican, as is true today. Durfing my lifetime, the Church has routinely elevated and honored men like Benedict, Cardinal Law, the founder of Opus Dei etc and censored or silenced those who spoke on behalf of the people, like the Archbishop who was gunned down in Latin America, intellectuals like Thomas Merton and others who have worked for asylum and women's rights. During the Papal funeral, I tried to imagine what Jesus Christ would have thought about the pomp and circumstance, not to mention the garments made of gold, if he had been standing on the sidewalk watching the circus go by. I don't think he would recognize the Church as the placeholder for his work.
And thank you for bringing up Galileo - perfect example of how the Church has made scientific progress such a torturous process...century after century. Sorry if you find my point of view arrogant. I prefer to think of it as informed.