Then tell him that he needs to learn to master his mind, and once he "convinces" himself that it wont affect him, then he won't panic(or writhe on the floor) when you shock him. :P

The taser would never be there when it is necessary, but a quickly raised knee into his groin as he goes to straddle you will have the same effect. Then when he complains that you have hurt him, tell him that the pain is only in his mind and that he should learn to control the pain in his mind. A hard slap on his face would accomplish the same thing, but is more likely to result in him hitting you back. You can also tell him the knee was just a reflexive (knee-jerk) reaction to your discomfort. Your boyfriend needs to learn that abusing you is NOT acceptable and will cause him as much discomfort as it does you. He needs to learn that NOW before he becomes your husband. Then, if the knee doesn't work, just tell him that, if he can't respect YOUR body (it is NOT his body to play with), you don't need him around you (and make other arrangements).

I read this letter on another advice column and the gal said he would tickle her until she peed her pants and then he laughed at her. Here she says "no longer in control of my body..."

Right?

Please, OP honey, do something next time -- a swift, sharp knee in the groin might be the only thing to stop this daily hostility.

My step dad would tickle me almost every day. One day when I was about 18 years old he and my brother held me down on the tile entryway and tickled me to the point that I wet myself. I was so humiliated. But more than that - it was agonizing and went on for what seemed like minutes. I had tried many times to explain that it is an awful thing to go through - and he kept saying "Well, you're laughing, aren't you?"

If I were the gal writing in, I'd be gone. This guy has a sadistic nature and isn't going to change.

we don't steal other posters' ideas in a top post like they didn't even post it!

For shame, kozakura.

You might also want to ditch the whole email address thing too.

Stealing would imply that I took someone elses idea and used it as my own. While I'm sure others thought of the idea on their own, the same as I did, it was still my own idea and I did not see anyone else post said idea.

As for the email.....IT'S FAKE. I don't use it for anything. it just sits there and rots. I've never even visited it past its creation date.

PS. Why don't you go give this guy a piece of your mind too while you're at it <link>

although I cannot approve of that email business.

Anyway, happy new year to you, good sir! I trust you're a good pagan like myself?

What about the email business don't you like? Not changing it mind you, just curious is all.

Sorry I'm not pagan. Was that the one that worships nature? I try to avoid religion. Got too many religious types trying to tell me how homosexuality is unnatural and wrong and that abortion for any reason is murder(including reason of genetic deffects that will kill said "baby" very soon after it is born if not sooner). Anyways got to stop before I start ranting.

Ps. Kozakura, at least in this case, is a girls name.

Also, happy new year to you as well.

Also(last time lol), initially I was going to go with stab but then I thought that might be a little much. =/