What was the "minor variation" in bed LW1 tried that alerted her boyfriend that she might have had prior sexual experience with another man?

My guess is instead of turning out the lights, shutting her eyes, spreading her legs and reciting the rosary while he finished, she left the night light on and actually showed a little interest.

Additional q:

How many of you think this came up because of a discussion about sex positions and how many of you think this came up because of a "discussion" (ie in flagrante delicto)?

That's latin actually, not spanish per se.

(per se by the way is french)

It means they were caught in the act of having sex.

Skeevy and embarrassing vs naughty and refined? I guess that would depend, to some extent, on who caught whom and what they were doing at the time. Your friends catching you "in the sack" could be cute but your mother catching you giving your boyfriend a BJ would not be cute at all.

The phrase sounds much nicer than it translates. The word "flagrante" means roughly "burning" as in "while the fire was still burning" and "delicto" means "offense". Thus the phrase means while they were still doing it. No refinement there at all.

I would be horribly embarrassed no matter who caught me!

But my affection for the phrase probably comes from reading too many Regency romance novels. ;p

these two don't sound very passionate.

Recently, while discussing a minor variation in bed, my boyfriend asked me whether I'd had another partner. I was caught off guard and said no.

Not that I'm judging. I don't care what they do. Were it up to me, I might introduce her to a little variation. Face in the pillow, ass in the air, baby! ha

Face in the pillow

itsobvious, that makes it sound as if makin' lurve is a firing offense!

And as we all know from the cubicle master-baiter, it's more complicated to do that than it sounds.

Hey, Spacey~~

I propose(not to you) that we adopt the funner phrase "flagrante delicious".

"(per se by the way is french)"

Um... also latin.

what was that minor variation.

I was thinking it has something to do with an ice cube in the mouth, or a finger in the bum.

KA