But why is a teen exploiter different?
by
bagelwoman
10/14/2009, 3:27 PM #
I think this column still falters for two reasons. First, if the argument is that consensual sex between a teen and a 40 year old isn't the same as either forcible rape or sex between a 5 year old and a 40 year old, he shouldn't be using the Polanski case as an example. The evidence of "consent" is at best highly questionable, and there is ample evidence of forcible rape. The plea bargain was entered because it was expedient, as it is in the vast majority of criminal cases, and it doesn't make this case a good example of why "teen exploiters" are different than pedophiles.
Second, the column also fails to show why that proposition is true even outside the facts of this case. Why should the state of a child's body allow a grown man to decide whether she's ready for sex, rather than the child's own mental capacity for consent? That argument runs perilously close to the age-old arguments that rape victims must have "wanted it" because of how they looked. The issue with age of consent should not be what the victim's body "signals to others," as the older column Saletan linked to suggests, but whether there is a capacity for actual, competent consent to sex. Consent relates to mental capacity, not physical.
In addition, the issue of "willingness," as the column describes it, is troublesome. A lack of active resistance isn't the same as willingness or consent, particularly in a relationship where an adult has power and control over the child. In addition, it's not a clear dividing line between pre-pubescent children and pubescent children. Very young children who have been sexually abused will sometimes exhibit strongly sexual behaviors, including even making sexual advances towards other adults. Does that make it ok for adults to have sex with them? Very young children who are abused also don't always resist; they often want to please their abuser because the abuser is a person in a relationship of trust to them - a parent, another relative, a teacher. That could be described in Saletan's terms as "willingness" or complicitness, but it's certainly different from true consent, at least in my mind.
There are certainly arguments to be made about what the appropriate age of consent is, and how to handle different age spans, but it seems to me that it ought to focus on an assessment of when an individual is likely to have the mental and psychological capacity for true consent, not on what others might think about their bodies or their actions.
Finally, if the argument is supposed to be that the perpetrator's intent is somehow worse when it's a very young child versus a prepubescent child, I'd certainly like to see more analysis of that. It's unclear to me what the motivations are for one type of act versus the other - is it really sexual attraction, or is the attraction to control and subjugation (which is shown to be a motivator for coerced sex generally), and how does that relate to the age of the child and how the crime should be punished?