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Pauvre Paris
by Alia
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Mr. Hitchens

I found your diatribe about the injustices Paris has “suffered” moderately nauseating. Your article suggests a puritanical, bloodthirsty public, while it coddles poor Paris as a victim -child.

A child darling, Paris is not. She is at an age where many people - doctors, nurses, fire fighters, parents - are responsible not just for themselves but for the lives of others. Sure, celebrity life entails relentless pressures, not to mention horrifying permutations of bottom-feeders, that in a weak moment would yank any well-adjusted psyche to the brink of despair but that's no excuse: thousands of people at 26 manage lives far more stressful and consequential than hers AND believe it or not – they suck it up without acting out!

You’ve adopted the dubious viewpoint that suggests Paris is a victim of circumstances. Even in her lack-lustre sex tape, you represent, not as the obvious antics of a dim-wit who has no reservations about taking the game of garnering attention to a new low, but as a victim who “may have been drugged.” Maybe she was a little rocked out of her head, but I hardly suspect a 3rd party spiked her drink. Clearly, you were disappointed in her lack of enthusiasm. I think you’ve missed the zeitgeist of generation Y where detached, deadened nonchalance in all things - including sex acts, funerals and financial windfalls, is the new status symbol. Feeling is out. If you find her pronounced ennui, her lack of abandon - the very things which I would consider proof of her full self awareness and perfect self control - unsettling, perhaps the best conclusion to draw is that dorky full-of-wonder 70’s porn is for you. Besides, its hard out there for a ho’!

You write about Paris as though she has been caught unawares, fresh off the farm. May I remind you, this is an urban, affluent woman with more than enough access to good information. While altered states and sexual freedom make life interesting, without self-responsibility such behaviors need to be the objects of public scorn. Do you really expect society to dignify her convenient claim that she did not know the law? Not only is it a shoddy excuse but highly implausible given her resources.

While you lament that “the majesty of the law will not give her a break”. I lament on the insipient mentality you support that advocates hot women relying on the kindness of strangers as a means to navigate life. Let’s not choke the cat with cream Hitchens. Consequences are often good things. Consider the people - her self included - that might be inadvertently helped by such harsh sentencing. Consider the inherent self-centeredness and carelessness in those who drink & drive, one that is only bound to escalate and generally doesn’t stop until it is stopped. If 43 days in jail, rather than a genuine tragedy stops it, maybe we all come out ahead.

You might also consider the social tensions in this country that would only be exasperated had she “gotten-off” (not in the video mind you). Perhaps that played a role in the judge’s decision to send her back to jail. It may be wrong, but as Paris proves everyday, life isn’t fair. Besides, Paris does not exist in a vacuum. You ask readers, “So, you finally got the kid to weep on camera? Are you happy now?” The answer is no. Does Paris care that the mentality she so carelessly perpetuates is the one that most prompts women to shed tears regularly? In degrading herself, she promotes the degradation of women everywhere. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not the T&A that offends, it’s the lack of a counterbalance.
Re: Pauvre Paris
by plumjooce
Holy Crap! Couldn't have said it better myself. Cheers for your intellegent review and clever wit at pointing out the obvious. I totally agree. Most likely she's never gotten an ounce of consequence in her life, no wonder she's throwing a temper tantrum. Let the rich and famous be aware that they're not above the law, we're all human after all. Especially when people are dying, worked to the bone for barely enough to live, can't feed their families, and places like Darfur exist, I cannot feel any sadness for a girl who throws money down the toilet for her own selfish pleasure.
Re: Pauvre Paris
by hah
Exactly!
Re: Pauvre Paris
by konark_girl
Very well written. I never thought I'd make a post about Paris Hilton one of my 'favorites', but this one....I will.....
Re: Pauvre Paris
by flip217
Spot on, absolutely spot on....
Re: Pauvre Paris
by ArkhamEscapee

Alia:
Consider the inherent self-centeredness and carelessness in those who drink & drive, one that is only bound to escalate and generally doesn’t stop until it is stopped. If 43 days in jail, rather than a genuine tragedy stops it, maybe we all come out ahead.

Fabulous. It seems like anyone running to her side has forgotten that not only did she break the law once but twice. First she drank and drive, which we were lucky enough to have be a victimless crime in this instance, but quite often can wreck other people's lives. Then, on top of that infraction, she ignored the punishment given to her, and now has to face increased consequences. She is not only in jail for possibly endangering others' lives, but for ignoring the initial punishment.

And before we feel bad, how many pictures of Paris (or any of her party friends) exist where she is seen exiting a limo? We are not talking about someone who had their license taken away and it threatened hers or his livelihood, or job or kids... She has more than enough money to pay someone else to
drive for her while on probation.

And then lastly, how bad can 40 days in the nice part of jail possibly be? Again, she is not about to lose her job, or abandon children, she just has to take 40 days off from partying, and I don't understand why she couldn't just suck it up and suffer through.

"Sit in Time Out and think about what you did, young lady!"

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