Re: Won't somebody please think of the prostitutes?
by
maxo
05/28/2009, 12:54 PM #
Yes... I've met three. Been pretty good friends with two. I knew the other one for about a year.
They were happy and had a ton of fun and money until they were 35 to 40, then your scenario played out. They were pretty in a normal way- not a julia roberts way-- one wanted to get a breast job to raise her income so she was saving up for that.
I think you are considering street-walkers, not those who are independent operators with their own place.
I met two of them in an odd way-- they played fantasy online games. Lots of free time I guess. The other was through horses.
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I would separate the drug/alcohol issue-- talking to one of them at length when she was old, and another when she was young, the drugs/alcohol preceded the prostitution. Both told basically the same story-- they were party girls who already did drugs and alchohol and one day a guy offered them a ton of money to have sex with him. Both found it incredibly exciting and had lots of fun stories (being flown to other countries, other cities, incredibly hot sounding parties, lots of sexual experimentation).
The young one was in her late 20's and she was a decade away from problems at least. Her main problem was a stalker ex military ex husband.
Not everyone likes being a safe middle class person. A lot of them have child abuse issues- but some just want the fun and the money. With craigslist and other "safe" places (like the legal brothels in Las Vegas) I think you get ladies with fewer mental issues that just want the money and enjoy the lifestyle. Private porn stars basically.