rampart said : "I just don't get smokers that don't accept the only time you can smoke, reasonably, is at home or in your car alone. Any other time, you must have the permission of any person that could be impacted by your smoking. If people decide they don't want to tolerate your smoke, well, it sucks being you."
I agree with you Rampart. However, what if you show up to a public park where someone is already smoking? Does that mean they need your permission to continue doing what they were already doing?
I have said before, and will say it again, that in this instance of a legal substance consumed in appropriate outdoor locations (i.e. a public park would be o.k., but not, say, right by the toys or in a McDonald's Playplace), this is more of a courtesy issue. I think the best and most courteous course of action (which, when I seldom indulge, I follow) is a policy of who was there first?
Again, if the smokers are there first, and you wish them to stop smoking, you should politely ask them to - the ball is in your court. If you are there first, and the smoker wants to smoke within, say, 20 feet of you, they should ask your permission. And everyone can be kind and polite, not rude or snarky. ok, America? Let's do that!