Its a tie! Both sides are stupid.
liberalism was invented in the enlightenment, and the west has gotten
more liberal and better than the rest of the planet for the last 300
years.
Wow,,.,where to start. Lets go with the obvious. This would be true if the Nazi's (Western Europe) didn't try to kill EVERYONE, including gays. Most of Europe is not full of liberal pansies, just like manly cowboys aren't around every corner in the US, just Texas and San Fransisco.
Yes the slippery slope argument from gay marriage to horse marriage is a fallacy, but the slippery slope argument that gay marriage can lead to incestuous or polygamist marriage is valid. If marriage is just not for one man one woman, but two consenting adults then why not allow incestuous marriage? The problem with the gay marriage argument is that if the arguments for it is valid, then why are those same arguments nullified for other taboo marriages? All the logic in the world can't get proponents of gay marriage around incestuous marriage. Some would argue that it is for the child's best interest to ban incestuous marriage, but that is the exact same argument used to justify banning gay marriage. In any case the point is moot if the incestuous female can't produce children. In addition, contraception and abortion are widely available to reduce or terminate pregnancies. Polygamy seems easier to argued against by limiting marriage to two consenting adults, but there is no real reason to limit marriage to two other than it is tradition. Man and woman have been the tradition, so changing marriage to gay couples is not a ringing endorsement of tradition.
The other problem is that marriage has been primarily a religious ceremony that the state recognizes, not the other way around. Religious groups do have a valid argument that if gay marriage is legalized then they will be forced to perform gay marriages against their beliefs. There is no constitutional freedom to marriage, there is a constitutional freedom of religion. Comparing the gay marriage struggle to blacks and civil rights also seems disingenuous. There is a ongoing debate if gayness is a choice or not, there are negative consequences for either answer. It is hard to say it is not a lifestyle choice when watching a gay pride parade. What is not in dispute is being Black. You either have a certain percentage of African genetics or you don't.
Considering the weakness of the gay marriage argument to change tradition, the fact that it is unknown if being gay is a choice or not, and that marriage has be a religious institution rather than a state institution- it seems the civil union is the best compromise. There is no reason why the state can't confer the same benefits to both groups.
I think the larger issue is that gays want moral acceptance and not to be seen as immoral act. Gays reject the separate but equal argument, not because in practice it was not equal as it was with racism, gay reject it because it is not a moral equivalent. The gay community blames this moral rejection on religious intolerance, thus it is a condition that is perpetrated via the church. What the gay community fails to realize is that if being gay is genetic, it is also possible that straight people may be genetically inclined to find being gay repugnant. If this is the case, no law will overcome it. The church doctrine against gays may not be the cause of this repugnance towards gays, but a manifestation of a natural revulsion. Is resistance to morally accept gays out of a natural repulsiveness (an evolutionary response to encourage reproduction perhaps) or a cultural response (nurture).