This was incredibly well-written, and helps me understand the "opposite" viewpoint. I am pro-choice and pro-life/anti-abortion. I think, in all reality, most people are some combination of that, simply meaning that I am morally opposed to it, and do believe that under most circumstances it is not warranted (certainly not as contraception!!!! [note @comment below, I don't mean that against your Mom, I understand your point.]).
But, without options and education, unwanted pregnancies, i.e. the CAUSE of abortions - you can't abort a baby that isn't there, and I think it's safe to say people won't abort a wanted baby unless medically necessary [and even sometimes won't even if it is, as was the case with my mother].
So, I think that if the party was truly anti-abortion, they would be interested in solving the crisis, one way or another. Even if Roe v. Wade was overturned, they would still happen: people would travel overseas, do it in their homes with a coat hanger - it doesn't solve it, it just makes it more dangerous and difficult. So, how do we prevent it from happening in the first place?
I always liked to believe that most Republicans (I'm a Dem) have genuine intentions - maybe the elected officials believe in this "trickle down" phooey - but they're sadly misinformed on many of the points you mentioned. It was brilliant of them to find one eternally polarizing issue, abortion, that can never be solved & will keep those who don't even agree with the rest of the platform voting for R. What is sad to me is all of the other Christian (and other religious tenets, but for the sake of Conservative Republicans it does not apply) tenets that have disappeared. We're supposed to take care of others, especially the weak and the poor. But that's the most "liberal" thing you can say!
Thank you again, Silas, for such an insightful post. You've given me a lot to think about.
-TLO