The complicated business of NOT judging Sarah Palin
by
brownapril
09/02/2008, 8:47 PM #
Ms. Bazelon and Ms. Lithwick:
Sarah Palin is indeed a feminist. She is a working mother who has pursued her own career to great success while raising a large family. She made an honorable choice to bring a Down's Syndrome baby into the world and into her already rather hectic life. She is standing by her 17-year-old daughter who, presumably, has made her own choice to carry her unplanned pregnancy to term. I congratulate her.
She is now, or will soon be, the Republican nominee for Vice President of the United States. She was introduced to us just days ago as a working mother, a woman who has lived her convictions as a staunch pro-lifer by choosing life for her Down's Syndrome child, and potentially the shatterer of the glass-ceiling that Hillary only put 18 million cracks in before her. More recently, to put an end to rumors that Bristol and not Sarah was the true mother of her son Trig, she announced to the national political arena that her 17-year-old daughter is 5-months pregnant. Given that this is how Ms. Paliln chooses to portray herself to those whose votes she hopes to win, how are we to not judge her on these accomplishments?
Are we to ignore Ms. Palin's position that all abortions should be unlawful, under every circumstance, just because she chose to give birth to a Down's Syndrom child and because her 17-year-old daughter has, presumably, chosen to carry her pregnancy to term and marry the young father? I have no issue with Ms. Palin's right to choose for herself. I applaud her choice. But she got to make her own choice. I want that same right.
Likewise, I have no issue with her pursuing a career while raising a family that includes an infant with Down's Syndrome. I have no doubt that Ms. Palin has the resources to do so. But should I not question, now that she has made the announcement part of her campaign, whether the choice her daughter has made is truly her own choice and whether this choice will somehow ultimately limit the other choices and opportunities this young woman might have in her life to follow in her mother's footsteps and pursue her own career? Should I not compare the Palins' ability to provide for their daughter and grandchild the opportunities for a decent life that might not be available to every young woman who finds herself in a similar situation but who, if Sarah Palin has her way, will find herself without any options? Are these discussions off limits? Why?
Should I not consider whether the choices made by Sarah Palin in her family life reflect positions with which I agree on political issues that could be vitally important during the next 4 years before I choose how to cast my vote? If that discussion is off limits, why are these choices on display in her campaign?
For me, it isn't about whether she can be VP and raise a Down's Syndrome child, and it isn't about whether her daughter's pregnancy makes her a really bad mother. It's about the issue of a woman's right to choose and all of the consequences that follow. She puts her Down's Syndrome baby on display to show how committed she is to the pro-lifers. And now she is doing the same thing with her daughter's pregnancy. Therefore, tasteless as it may be, if talking about Bristol Palin's pregnancy gets us talking about Sarah Palin's extreme pro-life stance, let's talk about it. She chose to put it out there for us.