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This is just ridiculous.
by japancakewalk
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Okay. I'm officially done with the XX Factor. After the insanity of primaries, I really started to get the impression that women writing about "women's issues" really translated into piece after piece about motherhood or a woman's choice to not embrace motherhood, vaguely injected with occasional political link-up or discourse. Of course, none of the XX Factor women seemed to have made that choice, since all of them appear to be mothers and frequently interject that into their commentary (as if women and reproduction are intrinsically connected when it comes to analyzing politics, regardless of the subject).

It was only recently that I noticed that, despite the many women that contribute to the XX Factor, almost all of them invariably emerge from the same demographic of women. All seem to have children. Most are white. Most espouse left-leaning views. Most seem to secretly wish they were Judith Warner of the New York Times, so they wouldn't have to keep trying to somehow integrate political commentary into their posts and could finally just enjoy the pure pleasure of constant, self-referential domestic anecdotes about their husbands and children.

This means that, despite the facade of diverse cross-section of American women, there is little diversity in what actually gets written in the XX Factor. In the last three days I have learned all about Sarah Palin's five children, her sassy-sexy librarian glasses, her ability to conjure up images of down-home-type aunts or grandmothers who wrestled bears and sewed hems throughout the childhood's of each XX Factor contributor's childhood (this part I find especially strange...surely I'm not the only woman that doesn't have some sort of folksy frontier-woman relative to wax nostalgic about). I've heard all about her PTA activities and her sister's marriage and her French manicure. I can't even count how many times I've heard about her "twinkling/shining/glistening brown eyes." What I haven't heard about is her views on same-sex marriage, or social welfare programs, or health care. Of course, I've heard plenty about her stance on abortion, since it ties in so neatly with the rest of compelling personal life. But for real substance, I actually had to turn to WIKIPEDIA...for fuck's sake.

I thought maybe Dahlia Lithwick had finally regained her senses in her most recent post, acknowledge that few of the XX Factor contributors have even bothered to scrutinize her political positions, since they've been too consumed in contemplation of how Sarah Palin finds enough hours in the day to breastfeed her youngest son. But no. Instead, I find an acknowledgment, suddenly followed by a quick and defensive justification of this kind of news-media absurdity. Now that Sarah Palin's teenage daughter's pregnancy has come to light, the XX Factor contributors have jumped on it with such ferocity that you'd think Barack Obama had just made a derogatory remark about Hillary Clinton's pantsuit on national television.

This is absolutely absurd. Let's just stop right here. We can stop pretending that educated women care about things besides motherhood, aging, and fighting sexist by becoming excessively offended any time Cindy McCain's dress size is mentioned on television or in print. Because according to the women of the XX Factor, these are the issues that concern the women of America.

I don't care about Sarah Palin's personal back story. I don't. At all. I don't need to know what her children's names are or what color of nail polish she enjoys or whether or not her daughter is knocked up. And no educated voter should care about these issues either. In a perfect world, Sarah Palin's high school extracurricular activities and her preference for more caribou in her diet wouldn't matter. But for some reason, they do matter, and no one in the media will shut the hell up about them. And frankly, it's a little irresponsible. Not only because it makes it seem like all American women are just as obsessed with Sarah Palin's riveting story of raising a special-needs child, but because it also casts aside the more important issues of her candidacy, which have become overshadowed by this incessant news media melodrama about her personal life. It seemed, for a moment, that the women of Slate had finally realized that. But then they would have to acknowledge that they are part of this problem. So best to go on the defensive, and attempt to make pregnant teens and beauty pageants relevant to the political conversation of this year's election.

Amen
by nancyh
Rock on sister
Re: This is just ridiculous.
by crucker
The above post is why I merely skim the articles on XX these days, then head directly to the Fray. There's more sense, and often real information and debate, in the Fray postings than in all of XX. The only poster I respect, Meghan O'Rourke, seems wisely to limit her postings and stay the hell away from most of the bogus topics the posters yammer on. And someone get Anne Applebaum away from XX--she's a he in woman's clothes, and should get a membership in the He-Man Woman Haters' Club.
you mean rock off sister!
by jazzguitarman
I hope she doesn't really leave since she always as something interesting to post!
Re: This is just ridiculous.
by nerdnam

In a perfect world, Sarah Palin would have well known statements on all the issues. However, these don't exist. There's scant evidence of her views on anything at all. And what is out there isn't too encouraging as to her knowledge and understanding of the issues: apparently, she thinks the Pledge of Allegience was written by the Founding Fathers. What else is there that she doesn't know?

Secondly her soap opera life does in fact reflect on John McCain's judgment. Why did he pick a person whose personal life threatens to overwhelm his campaign? Didn't he vet her? Did he vet her at all?

I don't care too much for the XX Factor writers either, but you can't complain if they don't take Palin seriously as somebody with pure stands on the issues. She just doesn't appear to be a serious politician.

Re: This is just ridiculous.
by sundance22
I agree wholeheartedly. I've been disappointed in XX posts in the past for all the reasons you mention and I even did stop reading for awhile. But I thought some thoughtful commentary might come from this latest news. But alas, no.
Re: This is just ridiculous.
by SteveAustin
So many years fighting for equal rights and opportunities for women, and these women in the XXX factor just show us a very pathetic example of what lefty professionalism is.
Re: This is just ridiculous.
by FirstInLastOut

Well... someone forgot to take their nap this afternoon.

Let me guess, you were bottle fed as a baby?

Re: This is just ridiculous.
by japancakewalk

you know I see your point, and I was really inclined to agree with it at first in this instance. In fact, what you said pretty much holds true for a lot of other, more opinion-based news outlets. A lot of commentators, both in print and broadcast journalism, can't seem to bring themselves to take the Palin choice seriously. And you're definitely right on the mark about it seriously calling McCain's judgment into question. In just three days, his candidacy has turned into some sort of bizarre media sideshow/soap opera.

But the problem with your arguement is, the women of the XX Factor are taking Sarah Palin seriously. Maybe one or two have brushed her off as a joke, but for the most part, I've seen nothing but lengthy and involved commentary. Unfortunately, the more substantial parts of her professional life have only been referenced in passing. And that was my real point. I found everything I needed to know about her through the citations on a free internet encyclopedia entry! It's not like this stuff is a well guarded secret. If the nerds on wikipedia can find it for free, Dahlia Lithwick and Melinda Whatsherface (who are getting paid to find this stuff), sure as hell can. It's not like there isn't anything juicy there, either. Sarah Palin has some pretty extreme political viewpoints, this stuff usually makes for good blog fodder. It just seems like it can't compete, in the minds of quasi-journalists, with things like moose hunting and baby-rearing. The one part of her personal life that is in fact relevant, what the rest of the news media is calling Palin's "Troopergate", is barely referenced.

Re: This is just ridiculous.
by japancakewalk
Yes, I was. And yet somehow, I still managed to avoid eating paste in kindergarten or shooting heroin in high school. Because, isn't something terrible supposed to happen to your children if you don't breastfeed? Or is breastfeeding bad this week? I can't remember...all I know is, somehow I still managed to become a functioning adult.
Re: This is just ridiculous.
by FirstInLastOut

japancakewalk:
Yes, I was. And yet somehow, I still managed to avoid eating paste in kindergarten or shooting heroin in high school. Because, isn't something terrible supposed to happen to your children if you don't breastfeed? Or is breastfeeding bad this week? I can't remember...all I know is, somehow I still managed to become a functioning adult.

No, you're right. Breastfeeding is out this week and bottle feeding is back in. So your ok... this week.

You didn't eat paste? You missed out. I preferred Elmer's.

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