Re: Could the left stop being so sexist about Palin already?
by
nerdnam
08/30/2008, 7:08 PM #
Well in fact there's a good deal of ambiguity on all these issues of motherhood and child raising and equality between the sexes.
It's not clear that in this day and age, that a male candidate could really run for president or VP with a year old Downs baby. In such a case, it would be understood that the mother was taking on all the responsibility for the child herself. So that is that feminist? Would it be accepted by the public?
If it's 'feminist' for Palin's husband to do it, why is it not feminist if a wife has to do it? And what if there's a divorce or he plays around? (I'm assuming she'll be president, because is really the job she's auditioning for.)
What if they both passed off the responsibility to caretakers, so that one could be president and the other could be an active First Lady or First Man as Hillary Clinton was? Would that pass muster with the public? Are we really ready to accept that in the interests of feminism, our leaders should be like the old aristocrats of Europe, who in the interests of the State or society rarely ever saw or interacted with their own children?
I'm not sure that a female VP or president who gets to blow off her parental responsiblities to her young children--because she has nannies and so forth--is really going to be all that popular with the many millions of working single moms who have do both--be both a mom and a worker--without a man to take over part of the job for them. Or with the moms who by choice or necessity take some time off from work so that they can be with their children, and who thus lose pay or ground at work.
Not everybody is rich enough so that they can live like the president of the United States or the governor of Alaska. I think some resentment is going to be inevitable and it isn't all going to be just because people are sexist or 'anti-feminist.'