Cracker, it is convenient and useful to generalize. We don't have 3
days to do a genetic rundown on everyone and determine their smarts,
their dangerousness, their diligence and a host to other characteristics. For most day-to-day dealings with strange humans, we have limited time and data and so must use visual and aural markers to make quick and efficient decisions. Generalizing
is perhaps the most useful human trait we have. See Oliver Sacks' "The
Man Who Mistook His Wife For A Hat" for an extreme case of a man who
cannot generalize.
To Yankees, your southern accent suggests a
greater likelihood of racist attitudes. Not proof positive, but a good
indicator. As a recipient of that generalizing I am sure it irritates you. And you have to admit, it is pretty hypocritical
when Yankee liberals judge white Southerners as "racist" based on
their accent, isn't it? Like race is a bad marker for generalizations and accents are good?
But on to a more illustrative example. If you are a man, a woman
will hesitate before getting on to an empty elevator with you, or she
will cross to the other side of the street at night. Is she an evil
sexist? No. Are you a rapist? No. She
just knows the greater likelihood that men have of committing rape than
women and the particular danger she is in at night, and treats you
negatively based on your gender alone. Does this mean that women cannot
rape? No. It just means she has the common sense knowledge that rape
is more commonly done by men, and therefore the risk is greater from
men, generally.
Feminists discriminate against men all the time based on
criteria such as these. Are they wrong? No. They are practical. It
may hurt individual men's feelings but that's just life.
If
this ever happens to you, I suppose you could jump into the
elevator with her (or cross the street to confront her) and then
harangue her about being sexist, explaining (as the wonderful liberal
scientists do in these comments) that there is a wide diversity of men
and that only a small minority are rapists, and that women rape too,
and that there is no way she can generalize about men being rapists,
and that gender is a social construct, and that she is just a sexist,
and that she is discriminating against you as an individual.
I
wouldn't. I accept her powers of observation and her hesitancy
around me as a male, no matter how "unfair" it is to me as an individual. I always let
women get on elevators alone if they seem fearful. I also cross to the
other side of the street at night if a woman is approaching me or
otherwise keep a safe distance from her in order to make her feel safer.
Generalizing and prejudice, whether it be on accent, or gender or
race is a valuable human tool and not the rank foolishness that some of
the folks on this website suggest. It may not feel nice to the
recipient who believes he is wrongly judged (such as yourself for your
accent), but the benefits far outweigh the negatives.