Re: Why Would a Mother Gives This to Her Daughter
by
nicolemarie
08/26/2008, 12:46 PM #
Greater chance of being hit by lightening eh - good luck with that. When I graduated high school close to 10 years ago (at the age of 18) I had already been with 4 people (all guys) 3 who were boyfriends and 1 who was my best friend at the time but I was not actually dating. No I don't regret it either, actually I have very fond memories of all of them, it was my choice, I was not pressured in any way. Matter of fact the fondest memories are of the "friend" not the boyfriends.
Oh, and by the way, I was a "good" girl - took all honors and advanced classes, was *this* close to graduating in the top 10, was among those with the highest scores on my SATs of my class, was involved with marching/symphonic/jazz band, cheerleader, on the track team. My parents knew all of my friends well - I am sure my mother knew I was sexually active but she knew I was a smart girl and protected myself from disease and pregnancy. And, because I was not over-protected by my parents, I didn't go crazy with partying, drinking, sex, etc once I was out living on my own, which is what I saw in many other kids my age.
My boyfriend of 3 years is 7 years older than me, 33 - his first time was when he was 13. Which would have been 20 years ago - so you can't tell me that people having sex at a young age is new thing. He also attended private Catholic schools, from kindergarten all the way through high school.
I'm too late for the vaccine, but I wish I would have been able to get it. How do you think your daughter will feel if, by some chance, she does catch the HPV virus? Don't you think she'll be angry with you for deciding not to vaccinate her, when she was too young to make the decision? Why risk your daughter's health over some issues you have with yourself? It's not fair for some young girls to be at a higher risk because their parents were too stupid to see the vaccine for what it is - prevention.
The sun causes cancer too you know - do you wear sunscreen each and every day, not just days when you will directly in sunlight such as days at the beach? I do - I wear sunscreen on my face and arms every day. Again, it's called prevention - against skin cancer, not to mention signs of aging. I know most people do not. Incidental sun exposure over time is just as bad if not worse than a week at the beach with no sunscreen. Do you keep your kids out of the sun? Do you not allow them to ride in a car, which might crash through no fault of their own? You could drive down the street and be hit by someone else not paying attention. I could go on and on...