Re: We got rid of our cell phones
by
kaiso
08/19/2008, 10:54 AM #
It sounds like you need new friends more than you need a landline.
When I don't answer my cell phone - whether I've left it at home, accidentally let it die, or just am busy - my friends don't leave angry messages. They seem to have this bizarre notion that I am a human being with other commitments and activities than responding to my phone - and that I am not always at their beck and call! Wow! They know that we will return their calls, even though they called our cells and we didn't answer. Wow!
Your cell phone is not a leash unless you let it become one. A cell phone can be left at home, ignored, or turned off as easily as it can be taken with you, answered, or turned on. A land line is not necessary for this.
I don't see how it's simpler - never being able to get hold of mobile-you seems less convenient than *sometimes* being able to get hold of mobile-you.
I have a land line - never answered, never given out - for one reason and one reason only: the security system that was already installed in our house when we bought it requires it to dial out for help. (I think there are newer systems that don't require a phone line, but I'm not going to install a whole new system just for that.) It comes cheaply bundled with our TV and Internet anyway. Having been the victim of some minor stalking/threatening/harassing/not-sure-what-to-call-it-but-it-was-damn-creepy at the hands of a former coworker, we feel it's a necessary expense. Otherwise we would not have it, and we didn't have it hooked up before that incident.