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A simple fix
by tenorca

I enjoyed Mr. Shenk's return visit to a book that'd been gathering vintage for a decade. But near the end, he asks: "Do we really want an iPhone, with all of its capabilities, to accompany us to dinner and to the park?" Answer: you can always, you know, leave it on the nightstand.

I suppose that Mr. Shenk, like a lot of us, takes the cell phone for granted. We assume we have to have our phones at all times because, well, we've gotten used to it. But there was a time, not long ago, where people were unreachable when they weren't at home. The detriments of constant stimuli can be easily overcome if you just leave the device that delivers them in your other pants. I'm not talking about a return to rotary phones and Morse code here; I'm just suggesting that Mr. Shenk presents the world as an invasive and oppressive setting where there is, essentially, no escape. I'm just suggesting you can push all that stimuli and information aside simply by choosing to. When the menu at the local diner is a e-menu, full of emoticons and pop-up ads, well, then it's time to worry.

Don't be so sure.
by Freditor_G Editor

When that mobile "internet stick" can give you directions to the park, restaurant reviews for the nearby area, summon police or tow trucks in an instant, and notify you of emergencies at home or among family... utilities heaping upon utilities... You'll still be "able" to leave it at home. Just as you can leave your watch at home. Your wallet. Your credit card. Your keys. Your car. Etc.

I think Shenk raises a good point - "downteching" isn't a viable long-term solution.

E Media when you don't want it
by macrol

I'm also sick of having media forced on me. For example, when filling up at a service station, I get bombarded with the station's amplified music, comericials etc. When in a waiting room I get hit with TV, radio, music, etc.

Re: Don't be so sure.
by tenorca
While I agree----the iPhone is essentially the Hitchiker's Guide to the Galaxy at this point---blaming your technology for your rudeness seems like a cheap out. As personal technology becomes more and more indispensable, (making downteching less possible) it's our responsibility to retain our manners and decency. If you can't leave it at home, can't you at least leave it in your pocket?
Here's a thought...
by DeaH

Carry it with you, but keep it turned off unless you're going to use it. That's what I do with my cell. The voice mail box on my cell phone is set to a recording that instructs the user to call and leave a message on my work or home phone - because I don't check the cell mail box.

Sometimes, when I want to be available to someone, I tell them that I am going out, but I will leave my cell on until XX:XX time. Most of the time, though, I leave it off unless I want to make a call, check a movie time, get a reservation, call for road and tow, or call the police.

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