What a dreadful little thing with tears and all turning into a demanding helpless creature so soon in the relationship.

She seems completely inexperienced as for living with a man.

The boyfriend is in for hell of a life.

She needs training and more training for grasping life with a partner.

Recommend he pulls out and fast.

can you even imagine a relationship where this was the biggest complaint? and what other sacrifices has the other person in the relationship already made for this needy, greedy self-absorbed person? s/he thinks it would be reasonable to ask someone to essentially go without sleep at least one night a week! GET OUT. NOW.

Boy, do I agree with you. If she's that needy now, can you imagine what she'll be like in the long-term? I'm of the "Dear Prudence" line of thinking. Cuddling is fine but sleeping entwined seems like hell to me also! He ought to run, and fast!

My goodness woman, how needy you are. Tears and emotional outburst? Grow up before you start dating. In the grown-up world a relationship is not being so self absorbed as to not consider your partners needs.

I agree!!! He needs to get out now!!! How dare she expect someone to change sleeping patterns, likes, dislikes etc. to accomodate her neediness. I too cannot stand to be touched while sleeping. I think he has been more than cooperative by cuddling her for a while before sleeping. She needs to grow up or get a teddy bear....

No kidding! This young lady needs to get over herself! The way a person sleeps is the way they sleep. Sleep is a vital part of staying healthy, and it's about getting the best rest you can.

Besides, how do you learn to sleep wrapped up like pretzels if that's not what feels comfortable? Restful sleep isn't a matter of just "changing your mind" about your needs.

I can't even believe that stupid girl is that selfish. I'd swear she made it up just to get in this column, except that some peope really are that needy. I hope that guy leaves her dumb ass. I hope he tells her why too--cause she's a dummy.

Hmm. I wonder if there is a support group for cuddle-needy circus contortionists. Perhaps 'The Cuddler' could pick herself up someone from there :-D