"Parents and society need to realize that not everyone is capable of greatness on a grand level."
Of course the reigning delusion, promoted by the educational romantics, says otherwise.
"Educational romanticism consists of the belief that just about all
children who are not doing well in school have the potential to do much better.
Correlatively, educational romantics believe that the academic achievement of
children is determined mainly by the opportunities they receive; that innate
intellectual limits (if they exist at all) play a minor role; and that the
current K-12 schools have huge room for improvement.
"No one
disputes the empirical predictiveness of tests of intellectual ability—IQ
tests—for large groups. If a classroom of first-graders is given a full-scale
IQ test that requires no literacy and no mathematics, the correlation of those
scores with scores on reading and math tests at age seventeen is going to be
high. Such correlations will be equally high whether the class consists of rich
children or poor, black or white, male or female. They will be high no matter
how hard the teachers have worked. Scores
on tests of reading and math track with intellectual ability, no matter what.
". . . a massive body of evidence says that reading and mathematics achievement
have strong ties to underlying intellectual ability, that we do not know how to
change intellectual ability after children reach school, and that the quality
of schooling within the normal range of schools does not have much effect on
student achievement. To put it another way, we have every reason to think—and
already did when the No Child Left Behind Act was passed—that the notion of
making all children proficient in math and reading is ridiculous. Such a feat
is not possible even for an experimental school with unlimited funding, let
alone for public schools operating in the real world. By NAEP’s definition of proficiency, we probably cannot make even half of the students proficient.
"[E]ducational romanticism asks too much from students at the
bottom of the intellectual pile, asks the wrong things from those in the
middle, and asks too little from those at the top. It short-changes all of
them."
These are the facts the vast majority of us don't want to face.