Arlington: Really? I think we can take a couple of singular examples to determine the truth or falsity of your statement.
Let's look at a pair of natural disasters, similar in scope, but happening in different parts of the country and in different years.
First: Hurrican Katrina's impact on New Orleans. I think you'd agree that New Orleans, for all its location in the traditionally conservative South, was and remains a bastion of liberalism. When it was hit by a storm, many of its residents failed to heed a week's worth of hurrican warnings. They didn't move, or even try to help themselves, until they looted private property. They were the first to call for government aid, and the first to complain that it was inadequate once it was provided. Even now, almost three years after the storm, people are still begging for additional government aid. The parish New Orleans occupies was solidly "blue" in 2004.
Now: The flood of 2008. This created financial losses and personal disasters in six states. Yes, federal disaster assistance has been requested -- but people got out of their homes before the flood got to them, except in the case of two flash floods. People listened to the warnings, and took steps to protect themselves. There was no looting. Government aid was no faster here than in New Orleans (in part because of slow movement by state governments), but there has been no criticism that it didn't come fast enough, and three years from now (IMHO) people won't still be asking for aid as a result of this flood. Of course, two of the affected states, Iowa and Missouri, were "red" in 2004. I'm not seeing the socialism, closeted or otherwise, to which you refer, in the case of the 2008 flood. I saw it in full after Hurricane Katrina (and, BTW, I was there, on the ground, for both disasters -- I live in the middle of the 2008 flood zone -- Davenport, Iowa -- and I deployed to Diamonhead, Miss., for hurrican relief with the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers. My experience is both first hand and fact-based).
If favoring socialism is not patriotic, then I think these examples can show us at least a little of who is or isn't patriotic.