To: bonkb - I will attempt to comment on most aspects of your post...
First of all, "superior" would not be a word that we would use. We do not see ourselves as "better" than anyone else, for God extends to ALL humans the chance to get to know Him.
As far as us being "backed up by the Bible"...it's really the other way around. We adhere firmly to God's word as our guide for everything. We have all been educated by in-depth study of the Bible...our educational program is never-ending, whether young or old, we are constantly taking in more knowledge of our God and His word.
I suppose you COULD say we are "special" though, and that God has "chosen" us. He has done so because we are the ONLY organization on earth that is actively carrying out God's will at this time...that of preaching "the good news of God's kingdom" all over the world in the time of the end. Jesus said that among the wars, food shortages, earthquakes, and pestilences that would mark "the last days", there would also be one positive "sign" occurring..."and this good news of the kingdom will be preached in all the inhabited earth for a witness to all the nations, and then the end will come." (Matthew 24:14) Other so-called "Christian" religions could not even tell you what God's kingdom really is...other than they think it's some vague feeling in people's hearts, not an actual government that will remove all other governments, as Daniel 2:44 CLEARLY shows. Or, they might try to explain to you that the kingdom will be only in heaven, but a look at scriptures such as Psalm 37:9-11, & 29 shows you that righteous ones will live ON EARTH forever, although the rulers of that kingdom will be in heaven with Jesus Christ.
Another reason we have been "chosen" is that Jehovah's Witnesses have searched for, and teach ONLY the "truth". We test everything we believe in, to make sure it accurately agrees with the Bible. Jesus said that those worshipping God MUST worship with "spirit and TRUTH" (John 4:24), and he prayed that his followers would be "sanctified (set apart) by means of the truth." And to his Father he said, "Your word (the Holy Bible) is truth." (John 17:17) So, any religion that claims to worship God, or follow Jesus Christ, but teaches things that cannot be proven by use of the Bible is NOT "worshipping in truth." Some of those false teachings are: the Trinity doctrine, the "hellfire" teaching, the worship of Mary and other saints, the use of statues and icons in worship (those who use these are breaking one of the ten commandments!), the list goes on and on!
There are many more things that I could list to show why JW's feel that we are God's chosen people. Another one is that we're the only ones (of Christian religions) who use God's name...the Bible shows that God's name is IMPORTANT to HIM, it was important to Jesus (Matthew 6:9, John 17:6, & 17:26), and Christ's disciples declared that God had taken out of the nations "a people for his NAME", "people who are called by my name, says Jehovah." (Acts 15:14, 17)
And, if you're wondering why God would "choose" a religion that only came into existence a mere...130 or so years ago (1870's)...Bible prophecy shows that true knowledge WOULD be revealed this way! Daniel 12:4, 9 & 10 shows that "the true knowledge will become abundant" in "the time of the end"...not before!
We do not wish to "ram" our beliefs down anybody's throat, as you put it. If you don't wish to speak to us, you can simply say so, and we will respect your wishes. But, we are following the instructions given to us by Jesus Christ, the same ones he gave his disciples while he was on earth, about going TO the people, wherever they could find a listening ear. He did NOT tell his disciples to set up a "church" and then wait for people to come to THEM. And, we preach the same MESSAGE that he taught those disciples to preach, namely, "the good news of the kingdom of God."
And, we NEVER tell people they are "going to hell". We don't believe in the existence of hellfire, as I mentioned in an earlier paragraph. We believe that a loving God would never create, nor allow such a place to exist, and we can PROVE this to you by using the scriptures! (Ask any Witness to explain this to you, I do not have the time to do it here.) However, we do believe that Armageddon is coming, and all who are not actively serving the true God at that time will be destroyed. NOT thrown into "hell", just put to death, never to have the chance to live forever in happiness. All this can be PROVEN by use of the scriptures.
And, as far as "working with the sick and poor in the community"...while these are noble endeavors, this is NOT the work that God has assigned his people to do in these last days! Again, Matthew 24:14 tells us that "the good news" would be preached throughout the entire earth, "and then the end will come." The preaching work is of utmost importance! God will permanently take care of the poor and the sick with his kingdom, when ALL man's problems will be gone forever.
bonkb, I hope that you will find your way back to this discussion and read the above information. You in effect issued a challenge, and I have attempted to answer it. But, if you do not, hopefully someone out there will benefit from my effort. And, even if NO ONE takes any interest in what I've written here, I know in my heart with all certainty that my God appreciates all the work I do in behalf of his great name! (Hebrews 6:10)