Maybe this whole debate is part of why one of my Sociology professors, when discussing sexuality, felt it important to repeatedly point out that gender and sex are not the same thing: gender is the mental construct and self-concept of a person vis-a-vis how they relate to potential sexual partners; sex is the little naughty bits themselves.
Maybe the original poster came off as a bit harsh, but I basically agree. I support the rights of the transgendered, and I also support the rights of feminists. I support the right of gays to adopt, and on and on down the liberal checklist. However, I do draw a line, somewhere around undisputed reality.
To wit: nature is not a feminist. If you are a woman who wants a baby, you need to have it before you're 40. Period. Full stop. To have the baby any later greatly increases its chances of being born deformed, or not being born at all. I'm sorry if that puts a crimp in your joining the boys club, shattering the glass celieling, or turning single-womanhood into the new bachelorhood. Sorry. Just, sorry. If you want to live the life of a man, unencumbered by maternity leave, then you will have to not have kids just like a man. Of course, men should be allowed paternity leave, and society should be more flexible, and the fact that women need to respect a biological age limit doesn't mean they can't get creative with it. But the fact remains, women should aim to have children before 40.
And gays should aim to include opposite sex inflences in their children's lives.
And transgendered people should think about the rights of their child, and should FOLLOW the gender roles they expect EVERYONE ELSE to follow. If the transgendered expect us to treat them, not as their original gender with an asterisk next to it, but as their new gender completely, then at the very least I can understand the confusion and consternation at this pregnancy.
I don't think this "man" is doing something unexcusably wrong, but he is most certainly bringing hardship into the child's life. I would feel different if the child were adopted or something (as is often the case with gay couples), because an 'abnormal' family is still much better than no family at all.
Maybe I've wound up sounding awful conservative in this post, maybe more than I'd like to. But the fact remains, just because a group of people is oppressed by society and deserves special consideration, it doesn't automatically mean that members of that group can do no wrong, or that they can't take things too far. Witness gay "bug chasers."