I ate out with a friend — someone proud to call herself a Massachusetts liberal — and the waitress got her order wrong. My friend said, "Well, if she was smart, she wouldn't be a waitress."
—Jenny Levison
My mother is a passionate liberal Democrat. Her long-time housekeeper, a Mexican immigrant Pentacostal, voted for Bush on moral grounds. My mother says of her, "These people just don't understand!"
—Polly Cleveland
"Of course I am going to be patronizing to workers, I'm educated."
—Stephen Dempsey
A faculty friend of mine and I use to talk about classes I taught on issues of hunger and homelessness. The faculty person, who came from working class roots, said "Those homeless people like being homeless; they choose to be that way, and they like living under the bridge". My mouth instantly dropped!
[Brainwashed]
When I was a cashier at a food co-op, I hated it when members would say, "Have a great week-end," assuming that I had 2-day weekends off!
—Lori Wyman
An upper-class activist was complaining to me about some women from a public housing project. My acquaintance was a member of a group that was trying to form an alliance with the public housing women in order to determine the needs of the housing community that they might be able to work together on. They had the right idea of joining together to form an alliance where everyone could contribute and learn. But ...organized a meeting to be held in her home....complained when nobody from the project showed up; ...Her home was distant in the fanciest part of town and, in addition, there were hardly any bus routes leading to it.
—Sally Thomas
This is an excerpt from an email promoting an annual conference of progressives.
One word about pricing and payment. This year we have set the price at the bare minimum to make sure that everybody who is motivated to participate can. On the other hand, we have also decided that anybody who does not feel committed enough to pay is not committed enough to participate. The price is $100 per day and there is no free lunch (no Santa Clause either, its a tough world out there), no discounts, and workexchange by invitation only. We encourage you to sign up early as we want to make sure everyone in our community who wants to attend can, but the event is designed to sell out at this price."
—Terry Masters
As a progressive non-profit director frequently surrounded by other directors who come from more affluent means ...my background as a person who grew up in a single parent family....on welfare and food stamps....When I shared this on one occasion the first response.... was that they didn't know that about me and were surprised because "I speak so well".
As an anti-racist activist I challenge statements like that when they are said by fellow white people about people of color. When it was said to me, about me, I had nothing to say, I was just surprised.
—Bill Vandenberg
When I was about 21 years old, I worked as a live-in nanny for a wealthy white family. I was working under the table and living in their home. I was "hired" because the mother had golf tournaments to attend, and she needed childcare. That year while her husband was doing taxes on April 15th, she threw her arms up in disgust and said, "I just can't believe it! We have to pay $50,000 to the federal government ALONE! We'll be supporting over 500 Boston families this year!" I was astounded that 1) she felt it was okay to share this information with me so casually, and 2) that they made so much money in the first place, and 3)that she thought supporting poor families was a bad thing! I don't know if people who are wealthy their entire lives have any clue whatsoever about poor people, or if they just don't care how their privilege appears to other people.
—Sonia Belliveau
I was in college — an elite college where class stuff went down everyday. ..... I had won an internship in N. Dakota and had received a scholarship from the Dean to get airfare to go to fulfill my internship, but they wanted to issue it on a reimbursement basis. I didn't have money or a credit card, nor the safety net of my parents. When I tried to explain this to the woman, she simply told me: Well, ask a friend if you can buy it on their credit card. I didn't end up going, because none of my friends had credit .....this woman called herself a liberal working on behalf of young women's development.
—Ana