Re: Racial and racist are not the same thing
by
tubbs
06/12/2008, 9:05 AM #
Telling blacks they're racist when they vote for a black candidate is.....well, actually pretty SCARY to me. Somewhere in it (it's difficult to put your finger on), there's a LOT of meanness hidden there.
I can't speak for every Black person, but to me, being accused of racism (reverse racism, I suppose) doesn't bother me much. I think to many Black people the accusation of perpatrating racism is so opposed to our identity that it just doesn't stick. It's like calling a woman sexist or calling a short person tall. It's more bizarre than offensive.
I think it's kind of like racial slurs against white people. The phenomenon of being called [fill in the blank derogatory racial slur for white people] is so out of whack, so divorced from their history and perception of themselves, that it doesn't hurt.
On the other, hand, I've learned over the past several years, that for white people, being called a "racist" is the functional equivalent of calling a Black person the n-word. White people can't stand it. White people can't even stand an implied accusation of racism. Probably for the same reasons that Black people hate the N-word: it's limiting, it implies that this is all you are and that you can't be anything more than the stereotypes about your group.
I think the phenomenon of calling a Black person racist or calling a white person a racial slur are relatively new in this society, so we don't have the same kind of collective experience that tells us, "You have just been slurred, react with offense."
But white people have been called racist for a long time and Black people have been called N-words for as long, so I think we are raised to watch out for these kind of attacks and to be extra sensitive to such.
Anyway, I just wanted to share my experience on this.
I see the arguments about reverse racism and "Black people are the REAL racists" very often (particularly on conservative blogs). The only thing that bothers me about it is the frequncy with which they appear, and I really feel more annoyance with that than anything else (like the same annoyance you might feel when someone passes on an email chain letter that has false information). Generally, I just debate whoever makes the accusation and that's that. I suspect, though, that white people feel a much more emotional/vicseral response when accused of racism, similar to Black people being slurred racially.