Although a man, I find this sort of topic and discussion interesting, even though the intended audience is most assuredly women. I suppose I can get past the petty characterizations of men and the victory claims in getting husbands to meet you halfway.
What I do find perplexing, however, is that you yourself claim to have encountered far less discrimination in terms of the glass ceiling, job offerings, educational opportunities, etc. What is the goal for feminism now? What is the valiant effort you aspire to? Will the apex be to have a woman in the Oval Office, no matter what her qualifications or competence? Does feminism fundamentally require allegiance to women at the expense of reason?
It seems your generation has achieved the apex, to me, of that movement: freedom to achieve your aspirations and also to choose for yourself what to believe and support. Should you want to leave the corner office to care for your children, by all means.
But, the question begs, what more is there? It seems that feminism and the Civil Rights movement have reached the same plateau; great gains have been attained, and the majority of people that have always simply wanted to live their lives and their dreams and are now able to have been doing just that: living life and leaving the fight. Absolutely there are still specific instances of inequality that need to be addressed, but aren't some of these fanatical claims and protests from prominent members of both movements a bit of calling down the specter of times past?
Oh, by the way, I'm very good at listening when my wife speaks. Men can be for that, too.