Re: I'm sorry. You're right.
by
Arlington
06/01/2008, 11:05 PM #
First, EV, congratulations on using "beg the question" correctly. That's very rare these days. I'm so impressed I hesitate, but not to the point that I'll refrain, to point out your use of "irregardless," which is a nearly illiterate coupling of "irrespective" and "regardless."
Of course I believe in civilized behavior. The problem in this case is that the child in question is incapable of being civil all the time because he has Augsperger's syndrome, according to what his mom said on TV.
Perhaps the little guy should not be mainstreamed, or should be selectively mainstreamed, or be enrolled in some special program to help him control his behavior, or... Well, there are many possibilities.
The behavior of the kid and the extent to which it disrupts the class and prevents the others from learning is not the question here. There's a solution to that problem and it can be discovered with some patience and experimentation.
The teacher is the real problem. She's teaching the students it's okay to gang up on people who are different and ostracize them, drive them out, humiliate them into segregating themselves, whatever it takes so the rest of us won't be bothered or inconvenienced or offended by them.
That part is very definitely black and white. The teacher was wrong to demonstrate to her students how to degrade and shame and de-humanize another person. That's a life skill they'll acquire soon enough without special instruction. She's also a bit dense if she doesn't realize her efforts are wasted on an Augsperger's child, but I don't think people should be held morally culpable for being dim.