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The Only Thing
by techresmgt

The only thing I am absolutely sure of these days is women are generally so full of themselves and baloney, it is difficult to separate the two. The moral highground is best reserved for preachers and priests, not women. There is an old, well known adage and it goes something like this 'those that live in glass houses should not throw stones'. The rally cry continues, men are sexist, women are victims. Women are sexist towards men, cheat, flirt, oft times inappropriately, double-dip as much, if not more than men, but instead of defending it, they celebrate it. Many 21st century women are proud of the 'easy women' they have grown up to be, seems it has become an issue of entitlement, of sorts. When men talk about their sexual prowess, women leap and snarl at them like TV evangalists. When women talk about their sexual prowess, it's all about how 'sexy they are', how 'approachable' they are, how 'hot' they are, how 'big' their heaving breasts are. (ugh, hurl, wretch) Ladies, do us all a favor, before standing in judgment of men, stand in front of the mirror and work on your own life, we don't need nor want your advice on how to live our lives. You have so very little wiggle room in that endeavor. Women flirt inappropriately and tell their 'man', 'don't be so defensive and jealous'. Men flirt inappropriately and women withhold sex for six weeks while making the man's life a veritable living hell. When men have sex outside of a relationship; he is a 'useless sexist pig' worthy only of an acid bath, documented in a made-for-TV movie on the Oxygen channel. Women have sex outside of a relationship and she whines to him that 'he is never there for her' and should do and buy more for her. Can you connect the dots? Is it possible in our time? Men are not the stupid dolts women think we are. We don't think from our loincloths, we do not think about sex every 15 seconds. We don't buy into your hypocrisy or double-standards any longer, either. The very sad fact is women generally believe they understand what makes a man tick, but in their own minds, women are so mysterious and difficult to figure out; right even when proven wrong. Correct, in your own minds you are indeed a legend. In your own minds. I have finally figured women out and it had me running and screaming into the night, humming that classic song 'American Woman, stay away from meeeee...'

Re: The Only Thing
by Real Slim K
whatever. Just don't stop them from 'flirting inappropriately' and wearing less. Summer is coming you know. (get some therapy. your mother tried her best...)
Re: The Only Thing
by oicuateonetwo
so true...and sad....
Ooh. A Misogynistic Crazy!! Funtime!!!
by deduction

You do realize that you are talking about many different types of women, yes? The women who are happy flaunting their "easiness" and "how big their heaving breasts are" are more than likely NOT the same women you describe as withholding sex or leaping and snarling at men who talk about their sexual prowess.

Either you are just female bashing for whatever reasons your personal issue have given you OR you don't have the ability to understand the concept of individuality. When it comes to personality, all men and women are not created equal and you should consider that when you make this kind of not thought out, illogical and emotionally driven tripe.

And see, I'm smart enough not to judge all men based on you!

Re: The Only Thing
by student_on_the_rebound
Truly Tech, sir, you've had a bad experience with women. I've had some bad experiences with men... for instance, some men seem to think it's a compliment to tell me, in the bar, that I'm a great conversationalist, and in the next breath say," Oh, hot girl just walked in, gotta go."

But, sir, we are all human. We all squirm with insecurities, dark desires, fear of others, fear of ourselves. We all have one foot in sanity and one in chaos. It is humanity's nature to court disaster and take solace in uncertainty, to sometimes choose the very worst option for ourselves like kids picking candy out for their supper.

For instance, I can't understand how you can preach from your soapbox that women should not tell men how to run their lives. Or, if you are so tired of hot women and their heaving bosoms, why not date a wallflower who would sooner jump on a bridge than risk slipping out of her top? Possibly because the wallflower does not catch your eye; the heaving vixen who knows how to work the room does.

Every personality has its ups and downs. The vixen may be your physical type; her gregarious personality may engage you. And then sometimes, it may infuriate you. I believe it was Chris Rock who said," If you haven't contemplated murder, you've never been in love." If you surround yourself with these types of women, well.... candy for dinner.

But I assure you, it is not all women. I can't stand to even think I'm attractive. I think anytime I've said," I'm hot" in public, it's been because the thermostat was over 70. But then, I've been accused of suffering from low self-esteem, and been told by male friends that I'd be far more dateable "if I was more confident."
Ain't life a cruel, funny thing?
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