First, let me say as Nixon would have, "I want to make one thing absolutely clear:" I don't claim to know how women will respond to an Obama candidacy or to his choice of running mate.
However, I think women are generally sensible creatures, often more so than men, and they will NOT abandon the Democratic Party for McSame if/when Obama wins the nomination; they will NOT reject his candidacy because he is male, anymore than because he is non-white; and they will NOT be upset if his running mate is not Clinton or another woman.
Women are practical and will recognize that if Obama selects a white male (and I think he should), he will have done so in hopes of winning the election and not just to make another show of diversity à la Mondale/Ferraro.
Personal opinion: To win against the Republican slime machine, Obama must appear as serious and sincere as possible. Adding a popular, moderate governor from the West or Mid-West to the ticket would help a lot to stabilize the Democratic effort to win the White House. Thus far, the Democrats have gone overboard in providing a diverse list of candidates and have addressed the issues of racism and sexism well, but now it is time (past time, really) to settle into a serious contention for the Presidency. This nation is in dire straits and the Republicans have no intention of righting what is wrong, so it is up to the Dems to stop the wars, get spending under control; get the economy and the dollar moving upwards, and the price of oil downwards; get healthcare costs under control and to spread the tax burden fairly across the economic strata. Women understand this as much as men do, perhaps better. This is not the year, it turns out, for a woman candidate, though I feel it should have been. It is also not the year for a black candidate, although it will be. The nation has not risen to the point where a person's race or sex is immaterial to his/her qualifications to serve as President, but this year, the nation is in real trouble and the Democratic leadership should have recognized that early on and the voters now recognize it. I expect Obama to win the nomination and I expect him to win the election. I believe,.and I think women believe that a solid male governor in the traditional presidential mold will help Obama win. Clinton will not help. Another woman would piss off Clinton's supporters. A man would not be viewed (I think) so much negatively as neutrally by women and, depending on his qualities, would attract support from independents and moderate Republicans. The Dems need a landslide, a real mandate, to make the substantive changes that must be made.
All of that said, I think Governor Kathleen Sebelius of Kansas <link>would be a terrific candidate for President. I expect we'll be hearing from her in 2012. She would make an excellent VP candidate too, but I worry she would engender (oops, excuse me) notions that a black man plus a woman would be too much on one ticket.
Good question, DC. I tried to answer it fairly and I hope thaqt comes across.
Bob