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Drinking = slut?
by MonaGatuna
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I'd like to know in whose world does a legal activity like drinking equal a distasteful activity like "slutty" behavior. Mom has her name-calling mixed up. Daughter was inconsiderate, but nothing indicates that she was slutty. Going to a bar does not make one a slut.

I'd react the same way if my mother was so quick to judge me after I went to a bar with a girlfriend.

Re: Drinking = slut?
by pbev

Going to a bar does not automatically make you a slut, but drinking too much can make your inhibitions lower than normal. By normal I mean rock fucking bottom.

On the few occasions when I drank too much, let's keep score, okay?

I...

...entered a wet t-shirt contest and won $1000,

... went home with a complete stranger and had sex,

... got into a fight on Saint Patrick's Day with two huge dudes and kicked the holy shit outta them,

.... wrecked a car,

... was thrown in jail,

... joined an orgy,

.... threw up so hard I broke a rib,

... was dumped in a neighborhood and didn't know where I was.

Soooo, let us see. Nope, going to bars does not make you a slut. Cheers sweetie.

Re: Pbev
by Texwiz

I really don't think that is typical of most people who go to bars, even when they do have too much.

Therefore, the OP's point stands. Bars and drinking do not = slut.

The letter writer was inconsiderate. She should have spent at least one evening with her mom and her kids, but the slut thing does not follow, unless her mom left out some details, like suspicious wet t-shirts or used condoms on the floorboard of the car.

Re: Drinking = slut?
by Fitzpatrick

Good thing you had the alcohol to blame all that stuff on. Otherwise people might think you had poor judgement.

Assuming that you think it's all bad stuff. Some of it sounds pretty entertaining.

Re: Pbev
by pbev

Tex, darling. The t-shirt dries. If you want evidence, look for damp jeans.

; )

Re: Pbev
by deduction
Hey. At least you won a 1000 bucks!
Re: Pbev
by Texwiz
Maybe I'm going to the wrong bars. I clearly need to get out more.
A fun drunk!
by tonto_goldberg

Winning $1000 is good. Were you the one that...?.......oh, never mind. You're not old enough.

The worst thing I did while really drunk was break a marguerita glass, and start picking up the pieces with my bare hands. There was blood. Lots of blood.

Re: Pbev
by ciscokid64

lmao/

Wow Pbev,

I think you're talking about loss self control, not inhibitions.

A person can go to a bar and have a real good time and not end up in some "Animal House" like antics. You are oviously an exception!

just flippin' ya &$#%!

I won't go to the bars with you though......

Cheers!!

Re: Drinking = slut?
by JacindaB

Oh pbev you made me laugh soooo hard! I haven't done things that crazy when I'm drunk, although I admit some very stupid doings!

Here's my question for you: how strong of abs do you have?! You must have abs of steel to break your own rib!

Re: Pbev
by Th Paine

I won't go to the bars with you though......

I sure would -- Hell, I'll buy! Those are the kind of stories you wanna be able to tell your grandkids!

;-)

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