There is just no end to the problems, health and mentally to any and all of those involved.

To include Dad/Grandpa and what is this about Grandma being a participant.

Thank Goodness, I don't have to make a decision in this case. I might even start thinking to old fashion firing squad.

Not really, but this is as bad as they come.

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Thank Goodness, I don't have to make a decision in this case. I might even start thinking to old fashion firing squad.

Really? You're a kinder person than I am. In my mind, what he deserves is to live a long, long time... in a dank, solitary cell, without quite enough space to stand up fully, never to hear another human voice or to feel the touch of another person ever again. Oh, and since he clearly loves being in control, when the echoes and voices in his head drive him to utter despair, a revolver with which he could end his misery. Just. Out. Of. Reach.

It's a good thing I'm not the decider here either. (My sense of justice runs to the melodramatic.)

Seriously, though, from a sheer logistics POV, how could the wife not know?

I agree with you, but would go one step further. He should suffer more than he dished out − way more.

Some religions proclaim that when you die, you go before God or His representative and your life is reviewed like watching some movie. However, in this movie you feel everything the people you came in contract felt.

If you perform acts of kindness, you’ll feel the relief and appreciation the person to whom you were kind felt. If you were cruel or mean to someone, you’ll feel their pain.

Oh, and one more thing, this movie last for eternity. According to this religion, after he dies, this dude is going to feel the desolation he inflicted on his daughter and her children forever. That sounds like one bad hell to me.

I like your view of what should happen to grandpa, (what a loving name to give to a beast.)

I have an addition, let him live that long long life in the damp, dank cell alone for 23 hours. But let him have one hour a day with Bubba and his bigger friends..

If he gets sick, nurse him back to health, clean him up. Then put him back in the cell to live another year, another four. Keep his rotting body alive..for perhaps 24 years.