Re: Can a Black man understand my pain, do you?
by
Kim Moon
03/27/2008, 1:12 PM #
Wow, you seem quite psychotic. What are you so bitter and defensive about? And where on earth are you getting these ideas? Again, I will repeat, since you have yet to refute this, you some how believe that when a person says that you can not understand their specific pain, they are attempting to monopolize pain in general. I only said that this was not true, and went on to say that if someone pauses for a moment to consider that SPECIFIC experience, perhaps they could have empathy or understanding for why a person is angry, bitter, and full of resentment. How you managed to change this into whatever the hell you are trying to discuss is beyond me. But I'll bite.
NO ONE SAID that any one person's pain supersedes another. In fact, that's EXACTLY what I tried to explain to you but you absolutely refuse to listen. You obviously have your own issues and bias which prevents you from doing this. But, what's absolutely hiliarious is that you become a hypocrite as a result.
Also, quit it with the assumptions since you do not even know who I am. I actually don't wonder at all why there is an "increasing tide of hostily" from the white community. In fact, I applauded Obama for pointing this out since it is very often forgotten, unknown, or dismissed in the black community. So, sorry to disappoint you in not being the person you wish I was so you can rage all day and feel good about it. The true reason there can be no real discussion is because idiots like you, instead of articulating your issues and trying to be civil, you immediately go for personal attacks. Again, I wish you luck with that. It's obvious that you are a very miserable person. Seek therapy.
Oh and that last paragraph is excellent. It's a cute little way of avoiding a real discussion by claiming I have turned the tables to support my conclusion, when, oddly, you never refuted it in the first place. You have no idea what it means to monopolize...wait, perhaps you don't know the definition of the word. Is that the problem?
Toodles.