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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://www.slate.com/discuss/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>Fraywatch</title><link>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/2070218/ShowForum.aspx</link><description>Fraywatch</description><dc:language>en</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2.1 SP2 (Build: 61120.2)</generator><item><title>And you think you are impressing</title><link>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2817889.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 23:43:57 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">8e55aff1-63ee-4857-a1e9-69fccb83d317:2817889</guid><dc:creator>NickD</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2817889.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=2070218&amp;PostID=2817889</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;P&gt;the new editor?  Look Garewood, I hope its okay if i use your approved alternative spelling of your name, I think if the editor really looks at this thread, and I am sure he has at least glanced through it he will see your ultimatums and demanding narcissism for what it is. That I addressed your arrogance and your narcissism is why I responded to begin with. it is you who then began the serial insults and self aggrandizing.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I hope the editor indeed does closely analyize the two threads in question here, and the last few weeks of both your posts and mine.. I stand unashamed of anything I have ever written in reply to you or anyone else.&lt;/P&gt;</description></item><item><title>Then write something decent besides flames</title><link>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2817861.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 23:32:53 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">8e55aff1-63ee-4857-a1e9-69fccb83d317:2817861</guid><dc:creator>NickD</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2817861.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=2070218&amp;PostID=2817861</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;P&gt;You are the one who claims to be so brilliant. I have seen one decent top post by you that I can recall that did not rely on insults and flames. That is not reasonable and it is not Pithy.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;For future reference anytime I reply to you on Fraywatch or BOTF it is not stalking. I post on both of these boards and if you don't want a reply here don't post here with silliness or flames.. Your silly accusations against me still stand out there for the world to see. They indeed make you look silly so regardless of your protestations I am happy the world gets to see you for what you are.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Reasoned? hehehehe&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Looking forward to another silly reply, Silly.&lt;/P&gt;</description></item><item><title>NOW, after a dozen or</title><link>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2817758.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 22:50:42 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">8e55aff1-63ee-4857-a1e9-69fccb83d317:2817758</guid><dc:creator>Gatewood</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2817758.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=2070218&amp;PostID=2817758</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;so of personal attacks launched against me in these two top post threads, only NOW are you finally waking up to reality and starting to write as if you had a functioning intellect?  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Well, better late than never, I guess.  Every top post I write is replete with plenty for a THOUGHTFUL poster to reply to.  It has ALWAYS been YOUR choice and BFD's choice to reply ONLY to the segments that you decide to take as offensive in nature.  Perhaps you have finally realized that some few posters are capable of looking past the surface and realizing that I am one of the few opposition posters that delivers pithy and intriguing political and ideological perspectives on the issues of the day.  Perhaps, on the other hand, you HAVE finally re-read these two top posts threads and begun to realize that to any disinterested observer you and BFD HAVE been attacking me for no good reasons, considering how civilized and reasoned I have been in the majority of my replies for post after post after post.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For future reference NickD there is ALWAYS something interesting that a reasonable poster can select within my BOTF top posts to reply to IF he or she is reasonably mature and in the mood for personal honesty.  Other posters of a Liberal vent have no problem doing so.  So, in the future, do yourself and your fellow posters a favor and make that effort or simply don't open my top posts.  Either methodology works for me. &lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>This site is not about you.</title><link>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2817560.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 21:58:56 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">8e55aff1-63ee-4857-a1e9-69fccb83d317:2817560</guid><dc:creator>NickD</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2817560.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=2070218&amp;PostID=2817560</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;P&gt;The top post is one click away for everyone to read. If you had a clue you would realize that I uprate conservative posters when I think they have made a good top post. The editor, I am sure, could verify this by checking. You could too if you bothered to really pay attention to the boards rather than jump to your silly conclusions. You did finally write a reasonable top post a day or so ago on BOTF and I gave a reasonable reply to it. So when you choose to be reasonable and quit flaming people and then crying like a spoiled 9 year old when you get the exact response you were trolling for, you get reasonable replies. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;If you can't take the heat of people answering your flame bait, then quit flamebaiting. You have moderated your behaviour somewhat so perhaps its getting through that self centered skull of yours that the other posters on this site do not worship the ground you walk on or the words you write. In fact most of us are simply trying to enjoy lively conversation and post interesting posts here. Join us and please display some of this massive talent you are always raving about.  I'd really like to witness some of it at least once before I die of old age.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description></item><item><title>Your OPINIONS notwithstanding</title><link>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2816267.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 18:38:51 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">8e55aff1-63ee-4857-a1e9-69fccb83d317:2816267</guid><dc:creator>Gatewood</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2816267.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=2070218&amp;PostID=2816267</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;the fact is that anyone reading this thread can instantly realize that you and BFD have NOT been addressing the contents of the top post nor acting like decent Fray citizens, but have instead taken turns engaging in drive-bys against ME and doing so only because you do not agree with my ideologies or political opinions.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The evidence is obvious in the nature of the these thread replies.  I have dealt with you two with more than a reasonable amount of courtesy and patience and still you two have done absolutely nothing but launch personal attacks against me.  The nature of your hatred is obvious for one an all to see.  Really, I am moved to wonder WHAT you think you are gaining from all this rancorous posting activity.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Do you somehow imagine that you are actually IMPRESSING the new Fray editor?&lt;br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Ha!  If you had actually</title><link>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2816221.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 18:30:27 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">8e55aff1-63ee-4857-a1e9-69fccb83d317:2816221</guid><dc:creator>Gatewood</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2816221.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=2070218&amp;PostID=2816221</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;READ my top post rather than merely masturbated over it you would have comprehended that I am against the rating system for the simple reason that immature posters such as yourself utilize it as a personality grading system rather than as a measurement of top post quality.  So forth and so on.  I'm not going to bother reposting the contents, because evidently you really DO need to enter an adult continuing education reading course and so a mere repeat of what has already been posted would be fruitless.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You are acting childish here -- both in arguments and in posting actions -- and you need to cut your loses now and DO try to grow up just a bit. &lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Look, you're embarrasing yourself again.</title><link>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2812416.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2009 06:37:30 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">8e55aff1-63ee-4857-a1e9-69fccb83d317:2812416</guid><dc:creator>NickD</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2812416.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=2070218&amp;PostID=2812416</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;P&gt;You sure don't care about check-marks and thumb ratings, you proclaim this to be the truth in many many different posts. Yet now you sit in front of your monitor and actually admit to keeping track of not only how many up-rates and down rates you have, but who gave them and possibly why.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;You are the fray epitome of a classic narcissist.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Like I said before, if I give you a down rate its because you earned a downrate. I sure as hell am not going to waste my time going back to change it because I am worried about what an arrogant ass such yourself thinks about me. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Get over yourself.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: Perhaps you are</title><link>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2811003.aspx</link><pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 15:41:29 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">8e55aff1-63ee-4857-a1e9-69fccb83d317:2811003</guid><dc:creator>NickD</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2811003.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=2070218&amp;PostID=2811003</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;P&gt;Gatewood is not being followed and harassed. He is baiting posters with inflammatory responses and call outs then pretending to be a victim of the very replies he seeks.  It is very similar to some older women in the bars who have long outlived their youthful appearance yet continue to insist upon being the darling of the place. They'll do almost anything to keep the center of attention upon themselves.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;It is a dishonest method to elevate himself without writing anything of substance, he simply proclaims he has substance and expects everyone to accept that he does. That he may have posted with substance in the distant past precludes the fact that he has yet to write a post of true substance since his return. This poster is AKA Demcon and has flagrantly and arrogantly harassed and insulted others for a long time. It seems funny that the person behind this current Nickname now thinks everyone should simply offer him the same respect and deference afforded to quality posters such as TheBell, when in fact he has used his abilities only to flame and play victim. Life, either on the Net or in the "meat world" (a term I recently learned from my nephew) doesn't work that way. &lt;/P&gt;</description></item><item><title>You or your posting buddy</title><link>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2810674.aspx</link><pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 13:18:24 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">8e55aff1-63ee-4857-a1e9-69fccb83d317:2810674</guid><dc:creator>Gatewood</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2810674.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=2070218&amp;PostID=2810674</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;did down rate the top post and then later removed the mark.  I only uprate my own stuff after one of you has downrated it for your delightful little personal reasons.  So you were busted.  So big deal.  Grow up a little bit and you won't have to have your nose rubbed in your own messes any more.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>IF, if....</title><link>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2810524.aspx</link><pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 05:14:03 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">8e55aff1-63ee-4857-a1e9-69fccb83d317:2810524</guid><dc:creator>NickD</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2810524.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=2070218&amp;PostID=2810524</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;P&gt;If I have downrated one or more of your posts it was for what I would have considered a good reason. I seldom rate posts. If a downrate by  myself was removed it was done by an Editor or a fray goblin and not me. For someone who proclaims not to be concerned with ratings you are awfully concerned about them&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Its your choice as to how you decide to behave, I have no control over what games you are playing.&lt;/P&gt;</description></item><item><title>It's your choice NickD.</title><link>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2796594.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 13:59:16 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">8e55aff1-63ee-4857-a1e9-69fccb83d317:2796594</guid><dc:creator>Gatewood</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2796594.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=2070218&amp;PostID=2796594</wfw:commentRss><description>I gave you a bit of sound advice.  Release the rage and bitterness and return to responsible posting.  You'll be a better Fray citizen for making that decision.&lt;br&gt;</description></item><item><title>Well said.</title><link>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2796583.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 13:57:01 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">8e55aff1-63ee-4857-a1e9-69fccb83d317:2796583</guid><dc:creator>Gatewood</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2796583.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=2070218&amp;PostID=2796583</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;Anyway, as stated; I'm not wedded to either approach as long as we have some sort of filtering feature.  If people could ignore or not even see the posters known to be nothing more than drive by ankle-biters [as the other two posters in this thread have become] or mere mindless nits then there should be fewer flame wars.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Yeah I'm Cicero/Hauteur.  I crafted the Gatewood nic way early last year and was just getting comfortable in its skin when the Slate/Fray system belched and would not let me use it anymore.  Then I spent the entire rest of the year posting with a very old nic [almost as old as Cicero] Demcon, and then I stopped posting altogether about two months ago.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Upon my return, after a bit of password argument with the Slate/Fray system, lo and behold, it acknowledged Gatewood as a viable nic.  Unless the system goes fubar on me again, I'll be posting exclusively as Gatewood for the foreseeable future.  As I said, I am comfortable with the nic.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Well putz</title><link>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2796107.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 04:34:57 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">8e55aff1-63ee-4857-a1e9-69fccb83d317:2796107</guid><dc:creator>NickD</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2796107.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=2070218&amp;PostID=2796107</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;P&gt;If you need to think I follow you around in order to get through your day then fine. Think whatever you like. But I have been posting on this site for years and on Fray-watch and BOTF for years, and TP for years before that. If you can't stand the fact that most people here think you are acting like an ass then quit acting like an ass.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Aside form BOTF and Fray-watch where have I replied to your posts? Where?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Oh and locking a rediculous post so you can't erase it later after you realize how foolish it makes you look is not an attack, its just locking a post so the world sees how foolish you have made yourself look.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;But keep up the self delusions if you see it so necessary.&lt;/P&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: Perhaps you are</title><link>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2795898.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 02:13:49 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">8e55aff1-63ee-4857-a1e9-69fccb83d317:2795898</guid><dc:creator>mercurial1</dc:creator><slash:comments>2</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2795898.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=2070218&amp;PostID=2795898</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;P&gt;I recall you from years ago as cicero and Hatuer was it maybe --- if one of the posters you referred to here is correct about your nic list.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I've never blocked anyone, but like you I have managed quite a fan list too, and suffer essentially the same types and forms of harrassment -- if that term apllies.  The only diff is I pretty much confine myself to BB, so their is no following me around but there.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;As I see it, with the feature I suggested at least the BS responses wouldn't be soiling up your post, and who knows, maybe the idiots would find some cajones and actually address what you TPed in one of their own. How funny could that become? Imo as well, this feature would also take away this fav form of harrassment of the dedicated common rightwingnut troll, who might wilt from boredom if all they are left with is an occasional idiotic TP not worth acknowledging with a response. I haven't posted over on BOTF for years, so I can't speak to the talents of the trolls I'm sure are there now, but those on BB these days are pretty uncreative and witless.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I've learned to love their "-" and generally non-topical efforts at rebutting what I post.  The thinking people know what's what, and if I was posting for an audience, they'd be it, not the laughing hyenas that only have strength in their numbers, not themselves.&lt;/P&gt;</description></item><item><title>Ha!  I just noticed that you</title><link>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2795248.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 22:06:25 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">8e55aff1-63ee-4857-a1e9-69fccb83d317:2795248</guid><dc:creator>Gatewood</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/thread/2795248.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/discuss/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=2070218&amp;PostID=2795248</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;BFD or NickD had removed the rating downmark that one of you placed on my top post the other day.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Very well, now that you have decided to be at least that civilized I will remove my upmark.  Of course if you or one of your posting buddies then downrates it again for your usual reasons I will uprate it again to compensate.  It's your choice how we play this out.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>