No, this is a feminist issue, I think. We (women, and no, I'm nobody's "other") are so quick to blame the other woman. SHE had no commitment to the wife, the HUSBAND did.

While it's not top-notch behavior on the "other" woman's part, the term "homewrecker" is really negative.

What, like husbands have no control over their actions? Those poor, grown men, seduced into leaving behind their family to pursue hot sex with someone new...