Dear Prudence,

My brother and I use to have a wonderful relationship. We enjoy the same type of activities, music, and movies. This all changed when he got married after getting his girlfriend pregnant. Now we hardly ever talk and he has forgotten two birthdays and Christmases. We are both deployed over seas I'm in Korea and he is in Iraq. I have sent him letters and gifts but have received nothing in return. I am very hurt about this and don't know how to approach him about how he is making me feel. Should I write him a letter or should I wait till we are both back in the states before I approach him.

Feeling hurt