David:

"A starving person might eat whatever gruel is set before them before starvation, but wouldn't it be nice to have more options than that?"

I agree. I'm "starving" (suffering from major depression and have tried other treatments)... ECT is being presented as an option for me. What is your other option?

Seriously, I'm interested. I don't know what to do, and as you've said what seems to be my best hope at this point is not a viable option and shouldn't be 'legitimized', I'm wondering what you suggest instead, as you obviously feel qualified to speak out on this matter.