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Men get a background check on your dates immediately!
by truerights

They are not just for the wealthy. Background checks are very cheap and they could easily save you a fortune and your career and your entire future. NEVER, EVER GET MARRIED WITHOUT ONE!

While most women are wonderful and sane, it can be very difficult to pick out well...let's just say the recent Mrs Paul McCartney.

One very consistent indicater is to see if they have EVER filed a restraining order. If they have, RUN away don't walk away. Garanteed to be someone who has issues that she will likely try to resolve with you or whoever else who is likely to make the mistake of trying to "help her through it."

Women who really need the restraining order are usually to afraid to get them and women that do file them are not real "victims" The tone of this article clearly indicates the frivolous and controlling reasoning that goes behind flooding the courts with the most out-of-control branch of the courts.

Women that talk a lot about their "abusive" ex are more likely telling you a soap opera and if they aren't they are going to have bouts of anger and cravings of control that they could not express to their "abuser" so they express them on the next guy who thinks that they can handle it and want to help her.

First check every city that she has lived at and then check the local county records. Don't even bother checking the details since it is usually some clerk who has not clue. You can get their handwritten statements if you like but realize that it is very easy to come up with details that are intended to shock.

Once a woman experiences the process, it is even easier the next time. If you find that a woman has multiple filings, then you are saying to yourself, "I want to screw up my life, screw up my family and screw up my finances.

You will be far better off celibate for life than a life with a woman like that. Let some other loser screw up his life thinking that he's saving her. As I said before, there are many wonderful women out there that are not screwed up, but you are not going to find them at the family courts.

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